When you walk with children (or with one child), you probably observe the scandals between adults and children on the theme "time home" on the playground. Admit, sometimes hunting to fill: "I went home! And how do you want to! Stay there alone! ", - Or threaten that everything, no longer walks, once you do not listen! It is easier to not go out at all than it is so swearing, in fact. Well, not enough and screaming the toddle of the toddle of the toddle of the toddler and do not drag home forcibly!
"I did not finish!"
Yes, children often do not want to leave the walk home. Why? Yes, because they are in the game! It is completely unbearable, - to interrupt the game in the most interesting place.
Give you to do! But warning about it: "My daughter, we have to go home. Tyten this tower, and go! "
And be sure to watch to go at the time of admiring the new tower erected in the sandbox, and not after the fence and a breakthrough defensive meters will be built around the tower.
Star around and on the hand: "What Tower! Well, in general, the wonderful tower! Let's go home!"
Last minute
In general, it is useful to warn about fast care. Kid configures. Well, not immediately and not always, but in general it learns to respond to a signal.
"Son, for 12 hours, after 10 minutes we will go home."
"Kid left 5 minutes, what else did you want to have time to do?"
"We have last minute! Run the last circle on the site, and at the exit! Want to hide? Last ride, and go! Last, I said! "
Three slides and one carousel
Time for preschoolers is often an abstract concept. And the sandbox, a hill, swing, scooter and bike are quite specific.
You can measure time by slides and swings.
"Baby, we have to go home. Sit down three more times, and go. First went! "
"Daughter, we are already time to go. I am very strong again, and when the swing stop, we go home. "
In essence, the same "give you to do", but expressed differently.
Goodbye, playground!
Does not leave?
"Speak" Goodbye "the playground. Goodbye, tower! Goodbye, sandbox! We will come! "
Stupid? But helps.
Animation, animation ...
What else? Children can refuse to go home because go home is boring. Yes, just boring!
Turn the road to the game. Go "through the forest" - through the Square between the playground and the entrance. And in the forest of hares and wolves. Or hide and seek behind the trees. The main thing is to keep the direction. Go "on the bridge" - on the curb. Play in catchy. Play in the "tug" - lead a child on a stick - he keeps behind the wand, and you are towing it on this wand. Then he is. Play in Gusi-Gusi Gagaga: "Have you wanted? Yes Yes Yes! So fly home! We can, the gray wolf under the might of the teeth sharpened, want to eat us! So fly, as you wish, only the wings take care! " You are a wolf, you drive around Gusem, catch it near the entrance and let go only near the apartment or elevator.
Observe tradition
Well, if it is a game where you play, only when you go after walking home. Then it will turn out afterprogulous ritual, which the child will wait.
Other rituals help. Many children love to call the elevator themselves and press the button in the elevator, type the code on the entrance or apply the key of the intercom, open the wrench of the apartment door. Let prescribe, apply, open, let them have fun. And remind along the way to the house that the elevator is waiting for the key to the entrance to someone missed. Welcome workers!
The donkey is caught up with carrots!
Postprochulic leaks work at home! Let the child after a walk while you collect lunch, watch the cartoon. Usada baby go into the bath. Give him from the threshold (after dressing up in my home clothes and wash hands) gingerbread or candy. You know yourself that your child is especially loved and that is not always available on the first request, - mani by this from the street.
And herself how, is ready to go home?
If not, it is better not to start. Any rule works if it is a rule. She said "in 5 minutes home," after 5 minutes you leave. Last minute - this is not the last Chinese warning. She said "three more times on the hill" - no 4th time and no more swing. Caught the Wolf Gustenka, - everything carries to the house, no "mother, once again in the wolf and a goer!" It's time it's time. Home means home.
What does not work
Blackmail: "Now I will leave you!" Because you won't leave. And if you suddenly really leave, the child will go beyond you only from fear. And this fear will surely come out: hysteria, broken with a cup, scattered toys, protests. Do you need it?
Persuasion. Thinking and waiting for the consent, you give the steering wheel to the child. And the child taxes, as he wants.
Violence. Grab and attribute forcibly maximum twilight. An older child is already heavy and able to fight back. Are you sure that he will not turn out and you will not drop it? Or what next time he will not run away from you? Is it ready to catch it throughout the courtyard?
Although, of course, to be honest, sometimes you have to blackmail, and persuade, and clamp and drag. But this is not always the case, right? You can do it!
