Psychologists are increasingly faced with such issues of women who complain that they seem to have relationships with men, just they are some strange, frivolous, unrealistic. Let's consider an example. A woman gets acquainted with a man, they all develop, as usual: calls, correspondence, words of love, compliments, even the date happens.
Alone has only one date, after which everything starts to fade, others have to have sex, after which the man will begin to be gone, thirdly just passes a couple of months, after which the relationship is as if they are gradually starting to learn themselves.
After a certain event or time, a man suddenly begins to move away from a woman. It begins to rarely call and write, even may not answer calls. He refuses meetings, refers to employment at work or lack of opportunities. He suddenly begins to complain about something, that is, he has some problems in the family, with health or at work. If we talk about feelings, then the woman stops them feeling from the man. He seems to be indifferent to her, although before that he talked about love.
The woman enters the stupor, what happens to her man, what she did, because of what he changed so. If she does not receive answers from a man, it begins to refer to psychologists.
For example, in each situation everything develops for reasons. Typical reasons are: 1. A man is Alfons, so first the woman attracted to himself, and then begins to make her "hungry" in his attention and love, so that she agreed to solve his problems.
2. The man himself does not know what he wants. This may also be.
3. A man is really busy. However, in this case, he will quickly satisfy a woman with his attention and starts to look for ways to not think that he is indifferent to her.
4. A man is a bachelor, so simply binds a woman with a lack of attention and creating various deprivities.
The main thought that a woman must learn is - a man does not want to build a serious relationship with her. For no reason, he ignored and paid attention to the woman, he simply does not intend to have sincere and serious relationship with it.
Moreover, there is such a way how to make a woman think about himself: it takes less attention to her, while periodically maintaining contact with her so that it does not think that it was parted. Thus, it can just force a woman to run behind him, think about himself and even to get to him.
But pay attention, dear women: a man did nothing to conquer your heart. He just said (and maybe he didn't even say) about love, paid you a few minutes of attention, communicated to various themes, even saw you or several times spent a date with you. At the same time, it did not provide you with anything, did not give the feeling of stability and the sincerity of his feelings and intentions, did not become your man (even his spouse), did not confirm his love, and so on. For what you loved him?
Situation is complex and incomprehensible to many women. You can find out and understand what pushes a man to such actions. But it is important to know one thing - he clearly does not intend to build a serious relationship with you, otherwise he would behave differently.