Any couple can quickly or late. What started like a stormy and passionate novel can over time to grow into a mixture of hate hate. This can be avoided if you have dangerous signs in time and try to eliminate them. In fact, there are a lot of critical moments, and they are unique for each pair. We have collected only the most typical situations.
You stopped communicating. Gradually, old topics for conversations were exhausted, and the new did not appear. And what to talk about, if and so everything is in order? "Pererapped soup" - Well, what is there to discuss, especially since it is suddenly offended and will arrange a scandal? As a result, a comfortable silence that will inevitably lead to a rupture. Depressed emotions. Dreams, plans, ideas, passionate rage, loudly expressed disgust - all this was at the beginning of your relationship, and then disappeared because you both accustomed to close your eyes and practically translate the conversation into the domestic channel - "and not to double Wallpaper", for example . Alas, avoiding sharp topics you can easily lose the main thing. Do you wonder what your half dreams about? Do you know exactly it? You have nothing in common. Suddenly it turns out that you have no common interests. At all. And there is no common dream. And in general it is not very clear that you did so much time together. Did not shoe wallpaper? Ego size with house.
When you quarrel, each of you is right, is £ 146%. To such an extent that it is not clear how this idiot (this idiot) can disagree with you. And no one will never give way. Because how can I give up a idiot (idiot?) Someone else. It's not even in treason, but it can simply succeed that a colleague at work, or an old friend, or a girlfriend - know about your life much more narrowed. Well, because there and the common interests are, and you understand each other you are much better. How to say football commentators - "Dangerous moment!" Because in fact all intimate affairs, doubts and difficulties you must discuss with each other, and not with friends, friends and colleagues. Lack of initiative. While both partners are trying to invent something - unexpected gifts, a sudden lunch, a romantic dinner with candlelight without any reason, unexpected sex here and now - everything is fine. When the initiative disappears (or becomes punishable, it also happens) - something went wrong. Conflectible. The worst thing that can happen between the beloved is constant attempt to avoid confrontation. Trying to always solve the case of the world when you can botherly quarrel, and then it is sweet to reconcile - a big mistake. Another thing is that the permanent swearing according to the same idiotic reasons when both parties recall all sins from the first date and to the seventh knee - also counterproductive. Lack of time.
Yes, everyone has a lot of work. Yes, sometimes it would be nice to meet with friends. Yes, children occupy almost all free time. At first it is perceived wildly, and living together, people bored each other. But then get used to. In the end, there is nothing terrible that the last time we spent the time together only during the period of courtship. And then you can suddenly think: how did it turn out that we live together? Gradually increasing hostility. There are also bad habits, frustration, and old resentments that have a property to grow into chronic disgust, and the impossibility of talking. And here, most likely, nothing will do anything. No sex. Today she has a headache. Tomorrow he drank too much. The day after tomorrow they are both tired. The next day they had guests who went very late. As a result, comic lists arise in Excel - all cases where sex could happen, but it was not. Over time, you get used to such a situation. In the end, that this sex is so special? And we live without it! And in fact no. In addition, it is fun, vigorously and necessary, it is also the most important way of contact, and real confidence, and dialogue, and in general one of the few reasons why people should live with each other. There will be no sex - nothing will happen at all. So in essence, this list is not so terrible. It is necessary just 1) to find time, 2) talk, 3) quarrel and make up and 4) climb into bed. No matter, month you live together or twenty years.
