11 signs that your boyfriend is abnormally jealous

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If the guy does not tell you with the open text: "Oh, and that this men are staring on you, oh, and what you are writing on them," it does not mean that he is not jealous.

Modern jeques - thanks to comedy! - already understood how ridiculous look and began to act not so obvious. But the nerves are shaking as before.

Your phone is all the time breaks away from his calls.

Let's start with the most obvious sign: it seems that your boyfriend does not want to leave you without supervision or a second. When you're not near, he immediately begins to call. You must remember and feel that he is with you (or rather, watching you).

He falls into rabies if you do not answer call

It would seem that there would seek business: the phone can be discharged, or left on the desktop while you went to the toilet, but your boyfriend suits such a scandal, as if you are an Extreme Extreme, Turning away from Insurance and cutting a radiating and breathing. He is so worried about your life and health, so worries, and you and you do not blow to the mustache!

He doesn't like your attractive employee something

No, of course, not the fact that Dima (or Vasya, or Kostya) is very cute and you are sitting at the adjacent tables and even chatting in a lunch break. And just he is a Pijon. Or, on the contrary, it does not know how to dress and manners he has a bearish. Or explicit gay and you strive to stare in the blouse. Yes, yes, it is in this combination.

He constantly asks something strange about social networks

"Have you already added my mom in Friends?" - That's the way, between the case. Wait, cute, I saw her once in my life once! And I don't care at all, the desire to detect her huskies (or vice versa) under my polluts of obscene jokes. And yes, if he requires a report, who these 48 people are like you beyond him, it is quite an obvious symptom.

He shakes when you leave the house without him

Why didn't you take him in a fascinating journey behind milk and a bar? He was dressed - only five minutes! Get out of the bathroom, wipe and dress. And you threw it alone. And not the first time! Yesterday the garbage also endured one. And that week did not say that you go to the bank of the receipt to pay.

He constantly walks with you even there, where not invited

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Because you are a couple and everything should-do-together. Otherwise, you just do not understand what the meaning of the relationship is. Yes, and on the bachelorette party in the beauty salon, he will also come. It will sit and diligently do not understand hints. Once the vocos and manners will have such that you will prefer to leave early, only to do not spoil people mood your boyfriend. In general, it will be difficult to have fun.

He himself is not very friendly and your friends will permeate

It seems to be a guy introduces you to your friend, with whom you are politely smiling at each other ... But he has no friend of Viti, and why, it is not clear. By the way, you yourself do not have time to understand how the rows of your friends (and girlfriends!) Also rapidly radically. Sometimes, however, the reasons for their cooling are understandable. Your boyfriend could be substunct in jokes, for example.

He seemed to have their own interests

He wants to do the same as you. With you. Especially if it's not at home. Mugs, hiking, concerts, whatever. Wait, but before, he was not at all interested in rock music and all the more hiking? Yes, he is every exit whitewings: And the backpack is heavy, and the mosquitoes are walking, and the hobby stupid. But leaves, although he could do his favorite ... What is his favorite activity there? It seems no. He stands all the time near you and the hobby is not distracted.

Now it is clear that he was aimed at his lifestyles

Previously, no matter what you say, he did not mind. Or even dared. While you did not go. It was here that Stalin, he actually deemed very much, and color - on the contrary. And that women about Emancipation simply to argue, but they want a housework. Why, why he immediately did not confess, how she sees your relationship and that for him in life is bad, but what is good? You obviously do not fit each other, and you have already managed to stick and part now somehow ... Not very simple!

What does it have to do with jealousy? The jealies love total control, and for this you need to always keep the object in front of your eyes. It is unlikely that a woman agrees to move to a man who has diametrically opposite glances in her place in this world and how to live together.

You must constantly prove your love

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If you did something that he doesn't like it - it's because you don't love him. If you want to go somewhere - because you do not appreciate the time spent time. If you put a dress that you like (and perfectly emphasizes the figure), and not a suit chosen by them (closed, like a bog) - because you do not respect his opinion at all and do not value them. Prove, prove, prove your love! Three times for the day prove!

He is clearly more interested in your life than you

Can you list the entire sheet of contacts in Facebook? And he can. Do you remember with whom he gave himself a couple of words outside two weeks ago? And he - remembers who you greeted! Do you know what his route looks like on Tuesday, and how - on Saturday? He knows your schedule and paths thoroughly. No, this is not curiosity, not care and not interest in your personality. Alas.

And do what?!

No one will say for sure. The worst thing is that the revision is most often - one of the manifestations of the most ordinary asshole, and you can even be in danger. Or maybe your boyfriend is simply not confident or rose in a totalitarian family and copies the behavior of his own mom in relation to it. Try, of course, to gently talk about the personal space you need and about what behavior is normal, and what - no. But first check ... And what if the asshole is still?!

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