Not only romantic relationships can poison life, which at some point they got off the rail and rolled somewhere not there. Friendship is also a toxic as the dump of nuclear waste. Just notice it is more difficult. Everyone has the right to disperse with a partner, society and the ear will not lead, but to get sick with someone - the act from the point of view of those surrounding the sneaky and cumped.
And we are tolerant of friends who, in fact, do not just do not support us, and the stone is drawn to the bottom and deprive the last forces. Do not do it this way. Learn to recognize toxic friendship.
Girlfriend can not and step without you
Friends exist in order to help in difficult times, it is true. But should these difficult times ever end? And your friend has ordinary times, it seems, it has not been from the moment of enrollment in Yasselki. I need her constantly - without your livelier participation, she cannot find a job or boyfriend, knock up an increase or carpet, choose a washing machine and profession. You are her speechwriter, Eichar, Swaha, credit institution and personal assistant. Awareness that you are responsible for each trifle in her life, tires. And it is Polwy - a friend takes you more time than a family, the cat and you yourself are combined. Think about - what do you get from her in return?
You always adapt to her
You only go to vegan restaurants, although you adore steak, and in your favorite burger there are vegetarian sandwiches. You have already walked on her favorite "disco 90s" five times, but she never found time to drive with you on the "Pirates of the Caribbean Sea". You meet only when it is convenient for her. She does not endure your boyfriend and buddies, but constantly drags the whole retinance on your meetings. It seems that this is a game in the same gate.
Girlfriend is unpredictable
When the phone calls, you do not know what to expect: whether it will start pouring their friendly feelings on you, or whether he wrapped for something. The joke on which she laughed to Ikota a week ago, today can insult her. It is sometimes not easier to talk to her than running on the stilts on a minefield. She hates you, he loves - and you are all pretty tired. Such Latin American unpredictability leads to constant voltage and alarm. You do not know what to expect from a person who, in theory, should rely.
She is jealous
You hide what I saw with Katka or Mashka, just because you want to avoid a sponsor - how did you bother to find time for someone else? Stories about how you're perfectly rolled into Budapest or having fun at the weekend, they cause her a sour mine. She would like to be the only light in the window and from time to time to save you from the serm of life. What a pity that your life is not gray. It has to hide from a friend all good and feel guilty for joyful moments. And this is the poison of pale toadstools.
Meeting perspective spoils you mood
And it does not matter why. But if you really want to drop her calls and invent excuses, just not to walk with her to Randevo - it is not worth raping yourself. You are not obliged to be a nickname - especially through "I can not".
