Manya Milgram wrote a memo out of 15 rules, which should be adhered to Facebook - no matter how to twist, it is a public Internet space, where there are certain features of interaction. Pics.ru was unable to stay aside and publishes the text completely. Print and hang on the wall!
If you want to "be friends" with a person who does not know you, first think about it, why do you need it. If you have found the reason, for example, without being another, you do not have the opportunity to comment on the posts interesting for you, bother to write a personal message "to a friend" with an explanation: "Alexander, good afternoon, we, unfortunately, are not familiar, but I would be interested Participate in discussions in your Facebook. I would be grateful to your answer to my request. "
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A personal message to that is personal to contact a particular person. "Good day! I adore your poems "or" Hello! Thank you for your interesting posts. "- Of course, please, but it would be nice to know for sure that they appeal to you. Overcome your constraint and put the name of the addressee in the first sentence.
If the user who you write a private message or comment, in the open space name is Lucy, Nyuta, Lek, Manya, Lelya, Lyalya, Mura, Lyuta, Lyaka (or other wild names for you), try to find the strength to contact them so how they call themselves. They probably have a reason. Most likely, it lies in the fact that they are so called.
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If your fingers sculp the keys, you cannot overcome the inner barrier and call a stranger nouse, ask her how to contact her. But do not contact her from Anna and, especially, do not think about the passport they can call Lyalya, Luce, Lyaka or Leku. You can make a mistake.
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In general, stop adding to the passport.
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If you do not have real reasons to contact a person with a proposal of friendship, come accepted that the subscriber will be waiting for you. To begin with, it is also good. Maybe you will be notified and will be transferred to another status.
Please accept the thought that you can not zarthinwith, even if you are very cool and generally editor-in-chief of the fashion magazine, and your hobby is to go to Africa and take pictures of wild cats. You may not be interesting. And this is normal.
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Do not go spontaneously on "you". If you were in the status of the subscriber, you are unlikely to become a friend. If you really want to cut the distance, ask a question to the interlocutor, whether he is ready for this. Do not provoke him to answer you that you did not drink vodka together to poke each other.
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Never invite anyone to the group without explaining the reasons. Even if it seems to you that the group should be interesting to this person. Try to doubt your opinion. Do not rush with your interests to machines, electronic music, library business, charity in someone else's personal space.
Do not be lazy to contact your suggestion to join the group. And again do not forget to call the interlocutor by name. Do not insist again and again, if after the answer "Yes, thank you very much, very curious" nobody joined your group. She is irrelevant for him. And this is also normal.
Item 9 applies to the invitation to the event.
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Before laying out a photo of even a person from the near-circle and even the one that seems to you a masterpiece, show respect for a friend and ask what he thinks about this.
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Comments. If you are Ham, nothing will help you.
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Comments. If there is a chance, you will first think once. Then the second. Then write a comment. Will erase it. Think the third time. And do not write anything.
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Comments. If you want to write very much, think 3-4 times. Try to calculate the consequences. If nothing has changed, then C'EST LA VIE.
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And most importantly. Before you spend anything in Facebook yourself, think your head. Think head. And not other places.
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