Young mothers often complain that old and sort of like the faithful girlfriends after the birth of a child themselves fell off, and evil and inequish society as if he had brought them for her brackets. But for friendship with other mothers, Francis's patience is required. Yes, and there will be little.
They don't take you seriously
Moms love loud to speculate that motherhood is the most difficult and most difficult job in the world. Therefore, it is useless to talk about their office collisions and an 18-hour working day. They only smile mild, as if you are a five-year plan, which narrowing the "money" on the nearest bush and now plays a financial analytics. "Oh, honey, what can you know about fatigue?".They depreciate your life
Some conjugates insights: "All garbage, except motherhood." The share of truth is there, of course. Good such, weighty share. But in which the thing is for some reason, childless friends are not very happy when they hint that all their lives with all the achievements are garbage, and it will be garbage until they constitute the mother's company on the playground. If you make up.
It is difficult to count on them
Having become moms, the girlfriend thoroughly lose control over their time. Now it belongs to anyone - a child, her husband, grandmother, nanny, with which you need to negotiate - but not a friend. Therefore, she will not be able to meet you. Although most likely he will say that he can, and then cancel Randevo due to the fault of some force majeure at the last moment. And you will suddenly stay without plans for Friday evening. And so - 15 times. On the 16th time you will appoint a meeting to someone who will not cancel it 10 minutes to an hour.They are offended
Communication with mom - run by zigzags on a minefield. Because she has already made up a list of the fact that a real friend should not speak newly minted parents and what he should not do. You have not explained these new rules. You must guess that cookies with chocolate are contraindicated to her, to visit the guests from 14:00 to 16:00 it is impossible, a compliments of the child under the ban, so as not to jinx, but to complain about fatigue and just tactlessly from your side, because see item first.
They are on turns
Pregnancy, childbirth and feeding are all things very physiological. From such a concentration of physiology, other mothers are somewhat confused by the coast and cease to see the borders. Nothing strange - after a long and regular communication with doctors and like-minded people in the forums, everything becomes natural and unsushable. But the rest still seems to be in the colors to describe the manifestations of postpartum hemorrhoids for a cup of tea - it is a little too much too much.With them is boring
If before the girlfriend got a proud title of mom, you had a breakdown for conversations, now their choice is very limited. Or you are talking about the sorrows and joys of motherhood, or you are an egoist who does not want to listen to the story again and again.
They go to you
You have no children, therefore, the time to give you a categorically nowhere. As well. You can use you as a service of instructions. Bring, taken away, ride, and capture this figure - just not with a pink strip, but with green, and do not confuse. And I can't, I have a small child. And you will refuse - and immediately turn into Hitler, even if the truth can not and apologize 28 times.