Your mother is a successful and well-paid specialist. Or she at all appoints himself a salary. And you - her eternal subordinate. Say out somehow sorry. And it is necessary to reach something that you need something except the salary is a difficult task.
one. If you have any general plans, or the common territory, or the common, do not give God, property, in fact it is her plans, territory and property. And you are an internal project and stuff of this project at the same time. Have you ever tried to communicate on an equal footing, for example, with a car purchased on a loan?
What to do: Make your plans, territory and property. At first, at least plans, but also with the rest do not pull. Otherwise, you will remain unfixed mortgage for life.
2. Once you learn that the wonderful job, where you were made somehow very easily, and where everything was so sincere and happily wondered by your qualifications, I got it because my mother gave the local director a discount. This taste does not confuse with anything. However, on the second month of severe toxicosis, something similar is flashed.
What to do: Search yourself where mother does not catch up. I did not surprise you that the children of all kind of financiers from classical literature hit the art? Now options are more - IT, SEO, Spanish, applied cosmonautics or narrative psychotherapy. Well, and art, of course, too - if it turns out. Mom will read your book only when it is published, and look at your picture only if it is found in the gallery, and not for your money. To convince her that you are not in the kulichiki, only two options can: 1. Money that you help 2. Dear people who say you are cool. Type "About my exhibition was removed the plot on 1 channel", something like that.
3. Daughter of a business woman rarely knows how to choose clothes. Because 1. Mom had no time to basifly try the whole cabinet with her daughter, discussing what to what and how. 2. Clothing at the daughter appeared by a firm order: "I bought you a dress and trousers, you are going violet." At the same time, it is necessary to dress so as not to shame mommy.
What to do : Learn in webinars, stretch yourself somewhere in a safe place, buy clothes where mom will not see. To mother gifts are consulted complacently, in the genre "Oh, that this is in Chulana found" - there really can accidentally come across funny things. To the question "Why you are not wearing the skirt-pencil" answer: "Ketchup I slept, I passed into a dry cleaning, spoiled, I filed a court, I did not win what kind of country, I brought the damned Putin."
four. When any mom asks "how are you doing?", It means "what you save from?" But the mother organizer will not solve your problems. It will coordinate how you yourself will decide. And control, of course, how you perform her tsu. Total trouble you will become exactly three times more (the problem, reporting on the problem, monitoring reporting on the problem).
What to do: Complaining only the fact that there is no difference. Or on the fact that the worse, the better.
five. She does not understand why you do not appeal just like her, with your home. How much money do you give up to your husband? How does it manage himself?! Why does son do not go to extra mathematics? In the sense - does not want? Who generally asks him?!
What to do: Mildly, but steadily spending the idea "In my company, only one director, and this is not you, and I". It turns out much better when your firm is separated from its company geographically and financially. If the husband is in the director at least visually, you can, just nod to him, and say that "and our chief said that". You can talk about children's autonomy, you can not talk, without a difference - for mom-manager, it does not even sound in Martian.
6. Mom has everything you can buy for money, and what she does not have, you don't raise money on the money. What to give her something?
She often has no time . Time to climb on sites and find exactly such an orthopedic pillow as the doctor prescribed. Time to get to a concert or a theater, and to go together - the holy, since the tickets are bought ...
7. How to understand what she loves you, and not just pumped in you loot and wants a loot renewas for it?
To be together. Every time she agrees to go with you together to eat sushi, she loses money on it. Now, if she sits, and does not run anywhere, and very, very briefly answers the incoming (you should not dream that it will turn off the phone) - She does it for you. Because you are her daughter. Although words she may not say that.