There are no absolutely perfect people in the nature of a priori, which means it is pointless to seek someone who will satisfy the requests to 100%. In relations, people are constantly putting up with the lack of each other - they are closing their eyes simply because the advantages in his beloved man much more.
If there is no feeling left for someone who lives nearby, and the person himself with his habit takes you out of himself - then there is nothing to do with him. But if despite all his annoying habits, you feed to a person feeling, then you just need to work a little over and look at everything else.Understand what you are wrong
Undoubtedly, some of the Human habits can irritate from the floor of the turnover, but even if a small propulsion from a man causes a storm in you, it is worth thinking about it. It is possible that this nonsense has deep roots that need to be discussed and eliminated.
For example, literally yesterday, he did not answer your message for a long time and it began to annoy it. In fact, irritation is not on his act, but on your thoughts about the potential reasons for this behavior. You think that he doesn't care about you, he, for sure, specially ignores the message ... When similar situations arise, just spend a domestic dialogue with you, it is objected to yourself - that it is absolutely not so that the man loves you and pays enough attention, just exactly At that moment he was busy, etc.
Never compete with girlfriends in the game whose man is worse
Unfortunately, many women suffer from this. They will gather over a cup of tea and begins: "And yesterday instructed the mountain dishes yesterday and did not wash!", "And my friends sat and so much garbage after this company!", "And mine ...", etc. Taking the rules of the game and continuing to talk about your beloved in such a context, very soon all his advantages will go to the latest plan, and in the image of your chosen one you will see only the tangle of flaws.You can fight such a bad habit, without separating from the girlfriends. Just the next time, when everyone together starts to complain about the sloppy and a worthlessness of his husbands, talk in style: "Oh, and yesterday I left bread, but the bread never brought. But in general, he has a household and caring, often pumped me with different goodies! ". Thus, you and your loved one in your eyes do not humiliate, and with friends, continue to be on the same wave.
Look for pluses in his minuses
The optimist differs from pessimist in that the first even from negative is replete with positive and rejoices where the pessimist flashes. If your favorite has a number of shortcomings, then instead of angry with it or saw, remove your favorite for yourself.
Is it absolutely not involved in the repair process and it does not have anything before it? Perfectly, you have a chance to do everything as you wish you yourself - to your liking and without scandalous elections of wallpaper and other things!
Is it an incorrigible sludge? But he will not count you for dust, and you can order a cleaning schedule yourself, sometimes letting themselves for recreation, if you get out at all! Is he not too talkative? Wonderful, most likely, he is a man of business - there will be a problem - he will not argue her, but just go and decide.
Remember, there are no insoluble situations, just sometimes on the same things you need to look from different sides, especially in relationships.