Do not hurry to surprise, reading this list - to whom they say, may come to the head to buy such nonsense and believe him. First, circumstances are different, learned in school too. Secondly, it is not a fact that you will not find here and your favorite book: You never know, on what topic there will be critical thinking to take and turn off.
Psychologists warn, hitting the readers such books threatens almost everyone.Book on how to make money
In 99%, such books write people who know how to make money only in one way - to handle their motivating books of Loham, that is, forgive, with a wide audience. The remaining percentage falls on those who were really good in their own business, and shares experience as a professional can make money on a mixture of professionalism, workolism and small impudence.
If the name of the author never heard in the news news "Founder Facebook Zuckerberg seemed in Cannes with his wife" or "the most popular King writer put financial records in the past years," then the book is not included in the last percentage.
Yes, if it was, and then you didn't say your mother with dad that professionalism and labor together can give excellent salary?
Book-Panacea
Promises to you faithful weight loss, faithful healing from addictiveness (for example, smoking or alcoholism) and, which is especially bad, often faithful cure from everything in the world.
At best, or full of well-known recommendations filed under some kind of "and thoughts positively on the picture above the desktop!" Sauce. But more often - "the authorities hide, doctors have conspited, the pharmacists do not want to lose profits, and everything in the world can be heal with a bath and launching hydrogen peroxide in Vienna." The latter is not our personal stub, these are real recommendations.
Before you begin to believe such discoveries that scientists are hidden, remember that physicians and pharmacists manage to make money from any, any at least uncontrolled, not what helps, methods. Therapeutic nail polish, therapeutic remedy for the cuticle, the calculation of a special diet "you just need to quit the chips" for money for five months ahead ...
Well, if they did not make money from the treatment of cancer of a bath or peroxide injections, this means only that such techniques are really dangerous.
Books on improving productivity
Such books ignore 95% of the real causes of reduced productivity: fatigue caused by the unreal load imposed at home and at work; hypovitaminosis due to the inability to provide themselves with high-quality nutrition or seating on dye dyeing husband or mother; the need to make lessons and crafts with three hyperactive children of younger school age; stay in the class below average; chronic diseases, for the treatment of which there is no money and time; clinical depression or subdepressive state; Sleep deprivation, with which it is difficult to do something, if you want to somehow time at work and at home.
Time management is a good thing, motivation is even better, but without solving these problems, they are that the dead party.
Books with positive thinking
Or, more precisely, the books that exactly you are controlling the universe and should take responsibility for everything bad that happens to her and with you.
You have such a mood, as if you were insulted, after you pushed you, they span in the face and called the Salava four times? So this is because you are in vain you allow you to offend yourself. And you should not allow. Not in the sense of defending, but simply pretending to be nothing, even though you pushed four times and everything face in a mud or from the stairs so that two ribs are broken. Although you will be glorified by the Salawa to the fact that in every corner they will try to climb into the panties. And you smile and do not take offense, then no one is to offend you and can not be offended! In the end, it is strange to expect from people to behave decently.
Do you have a husband - lazy, sludge and petty tyrant and seriously prevents you from living and work? So, enough to whine, take responsibility. Not in the sense of the casting out, once it stops living and climbs with fists, but acknowledge that his behavior is your fault. I smiled little, not that style clothes wear, not the cutlets put on the table. Why wine for the acts of an adult capable paid citizen is considered responsibility, also yours, the authors and explain something except.
If you do not see any explanations of a normal professional psychologist that in such books are not the case, we will give you an explanation:
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The book on how to wake up the inner goddess or become alpha male
Of course, the authors know what they are writing, because they are such a walking goddess and alpha. They are so much and not very restrained, but you can't believe it, because herself never decided (or did not decrease) to lie so much in the same sniff. So it seems to you that others would not lie too.
And even the fact that the expected behavior of the goddess is looming to the ridiculous and croupy heroine of cheap love romance from those in the contract on writing whose bed scenes - 4 pcs., One - with breaking under the laundry "(or extremely chaste heroines of the old English novel About the governess, which was good, and she was given everything and a man to the man in principle), and the born leader and the Hero-lover fell out of the godded FMOM, to which only the victim of childhood would be told in a hard dysfunctional family, against the background of which to roll the chest with shame and sadness - Even this discovery will not embarrass you.
Because or maybe it is necessary. After all, the goddess itself and the great alpha-male itself wrote.
Do you still believe it?
Text author: Lilith Mazikina
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