This article is written, mainly in order to help women better understand men. After all, understanding is the basis of mutual respect, and mutual extension is the basis of love. Therefore, in this article we will tell women about how thinks, they react and act men. So let's go!
1. Define: What type do your man relates to?
All men can be divided into two types. The first type includes ambitious, strong, confident men. They know what exactly they want from life, and confidently go to their goal. Perhaps they have already achieved a lot in life, and you are near for this reason. Such men are often opposed, unprofitable, non-sensitive, but it is necessary to understand that this is the reverse side of their purposefulness.
And the second type includes men who prefer not to leave their comfort zone. They are quite comfortable lying on a sofa with beer Watch football, sitting at the computer playing "Tanks" and other shooters, interrupting at the unloved, but the necessary work. Such men, as a rule, will not twist you, will not bend their line, trying to build you along it. But, you yourself will begin to suffer from their passivity after some time.
Tak how not to get bored with these two types? Remember that the first type of men is needed not a hyper-care mother, and not a spoiled daughter, but an assistant. If you do not displays it with your requirements and persistent advice, then you will most likely satisfy it in every sense. If not, it will soon be completely removed from you, and then it will throw away.
And how not to get bored with the second type of men? The answer to this question will rather theoretical, rather than practical, because, little woman, you need such a man.
But, after all, if you do not want to get bored, then try not to touch him. Do not interfere with playing games and watch football. At some point he will remember about you.
2. How long are you in relationships?
Love lives for three years. Yes, yes, precisely so much. This period is due to instinctively. Three years are the deadline necessary to conceive a child, and grow it to such age until he himself becomes able to walk and extract myself. Of course, this is impossible in our society, but our instincts do not care about our society. Even if the pair did not hurt the child, all the same hormonal background, because of which the butterflies flute in the stomach, subsides after three years of relationship.Therefore, if after three years after your meeting, you have little united you, then, most likely, you totate each other. How to avoid this situation? Here you can give two advice.
First, you need more general positive impressions so that you have two things to remember. A, secondly, you should combine some kind of total.
3. Do you have common interests?
This is a very important point. After all, common interests and the common cause - what will unite you when the hormonal background goes, and the butterflies will stop smoldering in the stomach. After all, if Vasr with your man has common interests, then you can deal with joint activities that will unite you, and if your man refers to the type of active careerists, you can become a good assistant. But here if there are no common interests, it is very likely that after the misstitution goes and the hormonal background will drive, you will become for your man's "suitcase without a handle", which is hard to carry, and threw it sorry.
The question of termination of relations in this case is only a matter of time. Regularly asking these three questions and responding to them as fair as possible, you will better understand your man, and whether you need these relationships. And if they are still needed, you will understand how to make them stronger.