Agree, sex with a partner after 5 years of relationship is not at all as in their start. Where is the sparks? Where is the clothes flying in all sides? Where is the fire in the eyes? Scientists say that it is possible to return to the relationship in the relationship, but you have to try. How? We know!
See porn.
Find the rollers that like you both. Believe me, so much porn that can be found like: from short rollers with a funny plot to full-length films with pirated ships and monumental scenery. You can watch directly in bed by taking a strawberry champagne and a couple of sex toys.
Examine Kama Sutru
So many years together, and the pose of a progress of a tiger - a dragon dragon has not yet mastered? Shame on your seeds! If it does not work, then at least attend together - laughter is very brings together, as, however, the joint activity of nonsense. Well, away from the routine. Not every day after all, you have tigers and dragons are hidden.
Break into all serious
Over time, sex make a truly cool sensation of proximity, care and trust. But honestly, it makes it incredibly predictable and boring. So do you have sex more often and spontaneously. If you have long all turned into "5 minutes quickly before bedtime," then you misses all the fun. Before work, you can also have a lot of things, not to mention the dining break.
Stop solve sex conflicts
This is not a way out. In addition, it forms a negative emotional connection between sex and stress, which you are experiencing in a quarrel, and subsequently because the problem remained unresolved. Like a dog Pavlov, remember?
Create your sex menu
Right like in a restaurant: snacks, main dish and dessert. Slow out the perfect option for everyone, and then exchange thoughts and work out the original feed on the next evening. As an appetizer, we recommend a foot massage, sex and games with a vibrator will go to the main dish, and you can hit the partner for the dessert.
Develop "Road Map"
You think that you know everything about each other, but believe me, it's not. Over the past years, you have changed, so it's time to try something new instead of the usual, but such boring kissing of the toes or sucking nipples. You can, for example, start with your head. How long have you done a partner massage ears?
Do not neglect touch
Even if they do not carry sexual subtext. These little signs of attention demonstrate to the partner your love, pleasant, willingness to come to the aid and what you are near. Yes, and no one has canceled the massage, even if it should not be continued, but a strong and healthy dream.
Change time
If you are used to having sex before bedtime, start doing it in the morning. Change the schedule, add spontaneity and spaces to the maneuver. Enough to have sex solely on Thursdays, the remaining 6 days in the week is nothing too!
Do not shift the initiative
Get out of the comfort zone and offer partner sex. Enough to play the game "I thought that the initiative was for you." Sex is your common cause, someone has to start.
Change roles
Old as the world, but from this no less effective reception. If one of you is more active, then let him try on a passive role. And the one who is used to being a log, let it work finally and turns on the process as it should!
Wear sexy clothes
Not constantly, of course. But at least once a month, change your favorite pajamas with a teddy bear for something more sexy. And the partner accomplish a silk bathrobe. Let Hugh Hefner come! Once a few weeks you can! And what space for fantasy!
Start a joint hobby
Not related to sex. As practice shows, joint activities that are not directly related to family, it extremely turns out and gives a new charge of relationships.
Answer for yourself
Of course, the role of a partner in your sexual mood is great. But do not think that this is only his business. Sometimes I do not want sex, but you can do so that I wanted. All in your hands!
Talk about the new format of relations
No one makes you throw in a swingers club or find other lovers right now. Sometimes the conversations themselves are so hardened that they become a catalyst for a new prik of sex life. No wonder the old Balzac repeated that "talking about love - it means to make love."
Do not worry
As studies show, libido - the value is non-permanent and prone to oscillations and changes. If you do not want sex right now (and in recent times not very), do not despair. Talk with a partner and try to tune in for the best. The story knows when, after the birth of a child, a woman about sex could not even think, however, with the participation of a loving and attentive husband, everyone returned to the circles.
Make a schedule
It sounds, of course, antisexually, but, if neither paradoxically, helps. Today, people are incredibly loaded, and sex is easiest to push into the background. And then you find out that you have not been sex for several months, because there is no time. So plan a certain amount of sexual feats for a week or a month and do not learn!
Try role-playing games
Another golden way. Tip: If all these games with changing the doctor and the patient are not for you, then try to pretend to pretend that you just met. And there and draw!
Shlit each other Frivalous messages
Dilute the routine daily affection about the affairs! Team and push each other, send depraved comments and photos! Do not restrain yourself!
Get out of the bedroom
Agree, the bed is the best place for sex, but, unfortunately, killing all the spontaneity. How long have you taken a shower together? Checked the kitchen table for strength? Yes, at least just have sex in the living room before the TV?
Try Righten
Whoever spoke to, but hard sex can really be good! No one invites you to arm your braids and other things from the arsenal of BDSMChikov, but spank, you can crash, and you can bite without prior preparation.
Go to sex courses
Together or alone. Who knows what new will you learn? Do you remember how Charlotte has mastered some incredible talcan technique in "sex in the big city" of Charlotte? Something!
Arrange yourself sex holidays
That is, the holidays when you will not get out of bed and engage exclusively sex. We all said.
Spend an audit
If you go to the doctor for prophylactic examinations, then why not carry such pieces for our own relations? Choose time and honestly talk about everything that bothers. Including sex. Discuss desire and joint plans.
Fantasize
And generously divide with each other with their own fantasies. Perhaps you want to embody any of them immediately?
Do not hurry on trifles
The little things tend to accumulate and have great to inform that it does not most best affect the relationship in general and sex in particular. So if someone from you constantly leaves the door of the refrigerator open, just close it and do not turn it into a reason for the scandal.
Play in the mirror
The meaning of the game is that the partner can only repeat your movements for you, but do not touch you. It turns scary.
Take the yoga together
Special attention is paid to respiratory techniques. Experts believe that breathing has a positive effect on the ability to experience orgasm. Well, all sorts of dual support are also great to strengthen faith in each other!
Take sex with finger tips
This is one of the most sensitive zones of our body. Do not deny it in pleasure! But remember - only fingertips, nothing more!
Discuss masturbation
Why not? It is interesting to know about your partner so spicy details! And subsequently - and see, taking this together.
Come up with your rules
And do not be afraid to change them. There is no special array of rules that suits all pairs. So create your own. And be as frank with each other as possible.
