Many factors affect the successful first date, and not the last place occupies the body language. How are you sitting? How do you keep your hands? Smile? And how, damn it, it's all remember?! Pics.ru is in a hurry to the rescue: here's the opinion of scientists and 5 basic rules that you need to not forget.
Prepare
Before a date, it will not be bad for a bad feeling of self-confidence. Experts recommend a very simple exercise - Superman's posture. Put hands on the hips, straighten and wait so a few minutes. Surprisingly, this little trick will allow you to feel much more confident, and therefore calmly and relaxed.
In addition, practice in front of the mirror in the fact that Americans call "smizing," - the ability to smile with eyes. And if you do it all under your favorite music, the result will be much better!
Break barriers
This is one of the most beloved tricks of psychologists, the board is the number one for the first date: the tourer of your visa. This is called "break the physiological barrier." Seriously, body contact - what you need, if you want to configure the interlocutor for a romantic way. Note, we almost do not touch friends or business partners. The simplest thing you can do is to hide. And in no case do not press each other's hands - you are not at a quarterly meeting!
Touch
By setting the tone of the arms, in no case do not give the positions and continue to concern a person. It is natural, it is not about climbing on his knees and cuddling with an unshaven cheek: everything should be natural and gradually. Watch the response of the interlocutor to touch and, if he gives you the green light, go on. But if you pull yourself to him, and he moves away, then this is an explicit signal, which is still too early for sex, and he is not ready for such a manifestation of feelings.
Rule four
Smile, use the open position of the body, lean and turn around in the direction of the partner with the whole body. Of course, when you really are interested in someone, it is quite simple, but it is not always possible to comply with all the components of the rules. Training until it becomes a habit!
Listen
In general, forget about everything that is written above, and just listen carefully to your companion. Just when you focus on your own body and its language, it is rather selfish and prevents real contact with a real person. The body language is cool and great, but they can not be replaced by sincere interest in man and pleasure from the time spent together.
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