How to combine husband and hobby: the experience of our readers

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Family - the thing is the labor cost, the time-folding and resource-fighting. This hobby is also. How to combine them and what will come of it, Pics.ru decided to ask his readers.

He taught bad

I have two hobbies - bodymodification and staving. After the wedding, the husband tried to persuade to quit both, he ends her mother-in-law: they say, a woman, the more married, to walk in the piercing and ruins to run. Ultimately, I told my husband that he didn't even know what he was talking about, because he did not try himself. He began to try and ... he now has four earrings in every ear and a few new tattoos, he goes to objects with me (and it's great, because safer, and does not annoying, as if I went with a stranger), but The mother-in-law only swells: "This twist" taught the boy bad. Boy thirty two years old.

House

I had a hobby, I made a puppet house with a height of almost what the meter and furnished it, made tiny chairs, curtains, buffetics, sewed curtains and tablecloths. Once I was fascinated by the manufacture of the ship - the mirrors made out of the foil, it was difficult and it is important not to shine when sticking - and the daughter pulled out, stained and partially broke her husband's shirt. The husband shouted on me and threw a house in the window with everything that I had on the table. My daughter is now two and a half, I'm waiting for up to three years so that it can be given to the kindergarten, go to work and divorce. My husband does not say anything in advance. Another house I really want to do, but I don't do it yet, I suffer, although I will dream of at night, as I pick it up, the rug knit ... It's not that the house is more expensive to her husband or I am harmful and proud. It is difficult to explain, I seem to have lost confidence in this person. And it became more likely to notice that he has permanent flashes of rage, irritation. Previously, I quickly forgotten unpleasant scenes because of the hobby, now they are all with me, the mood is worse than the day day.

Divorced

Ten years ago there was a combination of a very large number of factors that had a negative impact on my married life. Including, I just became interested in polygonal role games. He was fond of all, and games in the forest, and hikes on role-playing concerts, and thematic parties ... And, speaking, in truth, the decisive factor turned out to be the attempt to my husband to categorically ban the tent trips with the people "in Duratsky", as well as the refusal of at least That make the existence in my life of all this fabulous-Celtic-Monster-Coletian-Role Shanman. We divorced. On my initiative.

Massage husband - family happiness

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I sew. According to youth, I really infuriated that the husband perceived it as entertainment, and not the case. It happened, swear because of this relationship. He considered my classes to Blazhly, who is only in vain, distracting me on the weekend from the preparation of lunch from three dishes. I managed to shut the fountain of his eloquence by the offer to buy the same things in the store, since he is a pity that I spend time. He is very stupid, earns a little, we stayed at first very poorly, and this argument made him really shut up. After five family life, he began to even go like that his wife was sewing. It was the case, I sewed him then a couple of beautiful shirts made of good fabrics, which went on the occasion for funny money. Silk Pestry is so far, she passed 17 years - nothing is done to her. Black artificial silk hangs "on the output" - sometimes puts on. True, we still divorced, although not because of the hobby.

Border on isolent

I'm drawing. Husband supports, ready to get out of turn and cook food so that I have the opportunity to draw every day. There was one problem - we have one writing desk. Huge, but alone. The husband is unnoticed even for himself takes all the space of the table top, it can not control it. I had a strip of the tape to divide the table exactly in half. The border can not be observed on a centimeter, to touch what is for someone else's half, is prohibited if it does not burn. Now we have the right half of the table are littered with printed circuit boards, wires and soldering facilities, and left-hand - brushes, sponges and watercolor paints. Rivnely in the middle there is a cat. Everyone is happy.

Does not share but supports

Everyone has such a shower hobby, and I have cosmetics (and leaving, and decorative), as well as perfume and nail polishes. And I am something chash over all sorts, then I rub a collection of Poll, then Murch with some sort of perfume, then I fall in an anabiosis, choosing like a varnish to make nails. A civilian husband calls it all "treasures" and says - go to the hire (above them). I love one varnish, he was removed from production, and my husband found two bottles and added to me by three already.

Ida on stage together?

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I am engaged in Irish dances. Husband is a musician. My passion coincided with the gradual change of the repertoire of his group. Under the influence of my passion, he moved to the Celtic-Panka. Now I carry the idea of ​​joint dance and musical projects. My hobby is not cheap I need costumes, special shoes, but the husband does not say a word against.

The main thing on the bear does not contrace

We have a common hobby with my husband, we are hiking. In my first campaign my husband (then the future) and led, I was sixteen years old. The forest was an ideal sex polygon, empty and free. In the first trip, we managed to leave with a raincoat for two, and most importantly - without a cafe! But my beloved was not confused and cooked lunch in two iron bowls on some rusty sheet of iron. Wow, I told myself what is inventive!

Now we have a schoolboy son. Also travels with us in hiking.

Camping us is very united, and most importantly, in the forest we are impossible good and benevolent, the memory of it does not give us everything else to kill each other.

"Dear, stay today a woman"

I sew kryvy bears and dolls. My husband loves himself when I do it. Because I become similar to a woman, on the needlewoman, and so - the electrowel in life and all his writer with all the writer zakydon. And when she - rest, having fun and get home.

Do not shoot a guitarist

Now I am fond of the game on African drums. The husband belongs indifferent. But when he sang in the music group, he did not really like it - jealous to the guitarist.

Secret admirer

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The former husband was terribly jealous of me to my writer, which was then exactly a hobby, and not a source of earnings, as now. It was very poorly injured that there is something in my life, where he does not have access. Where he can not influence me. He tried, by the way: they say, I will read what you write and resolve (or not allow) to publish it. And I just started publishing and for me it was joy and almost a miracle ... So, when he stated me, I was indignant and said that here I somehow deal myself. Not his thing is. Scandal, tears, screams. Hardly the computer did not break.

In general, so we did not find a compromise. That is, I continued to write and publish, he says nothing. He, discovering by chance that again I am somewhere around there with a column or a narrator came out, satisfied the scandal. Divorced later. Not because of this, but this role also played, of course.

So, it's too much later it turned out that he thoroughly cut out and folded all my publications into the daddy. What I was proud of them, and at the case of boast and, in general, I thought to have a writer's wife is incomprehensible steep.

In Tango, the main thing is support

My husband and I dance tango. Sometimes I seriously think that our relationship is still held only because I feel sorry to lose a good partner for Tango. Because he passed almost everything, everything, aspects of our livelihood, but in Tango, it is better and better and better every year. It saves it.

How about doing a little business?

I collected beads. It was a cost hobby: I bought a bunch of materials and earned completely different. The result was herself or gave girlfriends. Husband, then still the future, saw the cammed leaf bought in America, said "garbage, I can also" ... well, and after six months I could. A year later, his products with my assembly began to be sold, now it is our main professional activity. He is doing, I am collecting and selling. The hobby had to start another, and it was strange to get involved in their own business.

The article prepared Lilith Mazikina

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