Moving is, as a rule, chaos, lost boxes, insane loaders and beer parties surrounded by non-expacted junk. Maybe fun, but very tedious, even if you move to the apartment better and full of plans and ideas.
Moving in a state of extreme stress is even worse. Divorce, loss of work and a change of an apartment in the center for odnushku in Kukuyevo, the death of a loved one who left you an apartment with all its contents - sometimes the reason for moving is so hard that all planning skills and the organization disappear somewhere, and you stand in the middle of the living room, Not knowing, for what to grab. Here are some ways to work through this difficult stage and do what should.
Ask for help
If the apartment of a deceased relative is full of familiar things, from one glance to which you want to roar, but you understand that they are not needed at all, call for helping neighbors and friends - they are not so sensitive and their racio can serve a good service. Ask them to help you with sorting and packaging wardrobe, books and dishes. These boxes later, without unpacking, it will be possible to give to charity, and this is the right solution. Do not hesitate to ask for help, in fact everything will be only happy to do something useful instead of just watching how you worry. At such moments, people often do not know what they can help - but it does not mean that they do not want.
Take the most significant
Usually, when moving, people get rid of superfluous, but if you and so in the misunderstanding, the dear heart things will allow you to feel a little calmer and more confident. And they are not at all obliged to be functional. Favorite grandmother's cup with a broken handle, lamp, found on a flea market for yours with (already formerly) husband of an apartment, a rug who did a bedroom overlooking the Kremlin such a cozy - take everything that is of particular importance for you personally.
Do not take hasty decisions
When you are on a platoon, it is easy to make nonsense. For example, throw away the TV only because it bought your ex. So-so revenge for treason. It is much better to get rid of his shopping and gifts, drove them on the local online flea market - the extra money will not hurt you now, even if you sell things for half a favor. If some object causes a storm of emotions, and mostly lousy, and at the same time you, in general, you can do without it - get rid of it. Do not drag into a new life something that will constantly remind of old and exacerbate stress.
Limit the unpleasant communication
Instead of asking for lazy and arrogant aunts from the store box for packaging things, purchasing a whole pack of large durable plastic bags, like from Ikea, or striped Baulov, who like market traders so much. They are more convenient and grasp, and the bottom they do not break at the most inopportune moment.
Instead of indifferent movers, who first be late for five hours, and then take half of the dishes, you can hire a friend with a car and a couple of friends with a developed muscles. If you can avoid nervous communication with outsiders and unpleasant people - avoid it.
Distribute
For you, every thing in this apartment is a whole layer of memories. For the rest, it's just things. After you take what is especially important for you, offered familiar to pick up everything they like. It is much calmer to know that all these significant trinkets are now in safe hands, and not in the trash can.
Say goodbye
Before leaving a house, which meant so much for you, let yourself say goodbye to him - arrange a party (do not forget to invite everyone who helped you) walk around the surroundings. This will help to tune in to change and save you from the feeling that you as if you were out of the established life, like carrot from the bed.
