Grandma Paws, Grandma spoils, Grandma neither PSA does not make sense in the right upbringing. Well, yes, well, yes, and who then brought you up so cool? There is no controversy, the drama and the figure skating section is very important, but be good, catching in the schedule of your chad. Although the day, which he can spend with his grandmother. Choo will only benefit from it, because the grandmother has what you can not give him.
Communication of generations
It was the grandmother who tells the child about who he is and from where. Because Mom's desigrated work is unlikely to delve into memories of the affairs of the past days. She may not know about them at all. Family memory in our country rarely extends on the great-grandfather and great-grandmothers, all that is fog and ancient history.
Attention
The grandmother has much more than yours. If she has already quietly retired, she has a little business, and the child does not distract her from anything. Therefore, children who often come from grandmothers, without any problems get their dose of attention. And they no longer have the need to knock him out of adult small emotional blackmail.
Choosing a role
As a rule, parents are as staretle grandmothers - on them responsibility! Granny, from their point of view, excessively conduciberates and generally spoils all the discipline. And correctly does. No one can walk on String 24/7.
Once in a safe environment where you can deal with the minimum risk to get a podzhopnik, the child explores the boundaries of its influence and tries different social roles. Simply put, if the mother is better not to move to the Rogger and being painka, in Granny, you can test the "God's Punishment" mode and see what happens.
Relax
The child is your project. With budget, strategies, tactics, planning and crisis management. And for Granny, this granddaughter, sweet patties and plot. She has already seen his own, thanks, now your turn is to steam. Grandma now finally will rake pleasure to communicate with the younger generation without all these worries and alarms. In the sense of pedagogy, the grandmother is frivolous, communication with the child for her - entertainment, and the child rests with it from the rules and the hopes assigned to him.
Good mood
It is not true that with age character will deteriorate. It will only determine those who have been cholera in 20 years. And on the middle, people over the years, on the contrary, calm down and finally begin to look at the world condescendingly.
First, they are already smart enough to not know with unpleasant people, secondly, they no longer twitch because of the work or that someone there she looked at them. Thirdly, they are no longer afraid of the future - in fact, everything that could happen has already happened.
This joyful picture spoils the hormonal imbalance and menopause, but in the dry residue of the grandmother still more positive and know how to distinguish the universal tragedy from the case of everyday life. But mom is not always.