10 ways to save relationships at a distance

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Life is unfair and sometimes loses us for a while (sometimes for a long time) with your favorite people. Of course, we swear to keep our love-above-the sky forever, but in the depths of the soul are afraid that nothing will come of it. Here are ten rules that will increase the probability of Happy End.

Correspondence - Surrogat. Talk!

FB Messengers are only for: "By the way, I love you, gone to the galleys." Talking for hours in messengers, of course, is not prohibited, but much less efficiently than if you just turn on the camera and talk to each other. Body language - our all. Well, in addition, the fact that you recovered a hundred kilograms for these three years will not be for your chosen one (chosen) an unpleasant surprise.

Get a common blog

On the blogspote (conveniently), or on Facebook, or in LJ - it does not matter. It is important that this is your shared account in which you both full owners, your common friends come there and so on. It will place where you take guests like a couple.

Send him a parcel

Mail
A real parcel, which is sent by hand and in the mail. The parcel is a very important thing - it shows your choices (chosen one) that you are about her (about him) do not just think, but ready to spend time to please her (Him). And the package and its contents can be touched, and this is not a smiley emoticon.

Have fun

Do not stick to the laptop for hours, waiting for, when, when I write my babe. This will lead to capricious and demanding intonations that will be driven from each comma. Better sign up for culinary courses. It will give you a hundred points to karma if you are a woman, and about one and a half thousand, if you are a man.

Meet regularly

This, of course, depends on money, intensity of work / study and distance, but it is still necessary to meet. Semiannually? Ok, let. Traditionally, every six months. All good relationships are kept, in particular, on the fictional pair of complex rituals. Regular flight across the entire planet is quite suitable.

Integrate it (her) in his life when he (she) will come

Park.
Do not sit at home. At home you can see (read: Wheel) Only one day. And then drag your favorite to your friends, in nature, anywhere, so that it leaves vivid memories. It will save you from the terrible "We have no common interests, we have become quite strangers, ah."

Do not come to him without warning

Of course, sometimes terribly wakes secretly to come and cry "Preveals! Surprise! " break into the apartment one. But it is not worth doing this. And not even because the naked man of another sex can be on his bed. And simply because the disturbed plans strongly spoil the feeling of cloudless happiness.

Do not panic on the subject "He changes me"

Pens.
Maybe changes. People live in the same apartment, and it does not prevent them from changing each other. Treason is not related to distance. But the removal of the brain on this topic may well betray to provoke, at least from the principle "so as not in vain suffering."

Arrange a date

Dress, candles, laptop. And to finish such a date it makes sense somehow well.

Do not lie

First of all, yourself. A man is very convenient at a distance. He does not snore in the ear, does not scatter socks and does not make the brain on the topic of unwashed dishes. Of course, such a valuable frame is endowed with all possible positive qualities, which, in fact, may not have at all. Exactly the woman knows somewhere far as well, and then all this breaks about a harsh border of reality. There are cases when people retained relationships at a distance of years, and, by going, scattered in a week with a nourishment. Equally, as well as other cases are known - people protect the romantic dealer's relationship already thirty years (starting with paper, letters, letters), and their relationship is still fresh and touching.

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