When the girlfriend took and carried a man - this is, to speak honestly, although it is very disappointing, but it is clear. We prepared all my life to this: both cinema, books, and magazines.
But about what we really did not warn us - this is that a man wants to separate us with girlfriends. We have collected real stories of women whose husbands destroyed friendship.
Lovelace
Once caught my first husband for flirting with my girlfriend. I didn't even figure out anything, I then believed that the initiator was always the woman - "Signals serves." I stopped inviting it to visit and generally reduced communication.
Then a few more times I caught my husband on Flirt with girlfriends and even my sister. As a result, when it was divorced, went into the desert. I supported me, thank God, the elderly colleague at work. Now the farther, the more it seems that the former husband was deliberately flirted with me. It is to dare me from the girlfriends. However, I think if they responded to the flirt, from the romance on the side he would not refuse either.
Minus two years
I spent the night somehow with a child in the apartment of my best friend. Not just the best, and the most, the girlfriend of the whole childhood. At that time she was married, and I just divorced only. And it turned out that my one year old son remembered a randomly advertising picture. Husband girlfriend gave me a scandal. And his girlfriend supported him ...
I was offended and we did not communicate two years while she did not divorce himself. Then we met, reconciled, shook, forgave each other. And in two weeks she died. And I still king myself for having lost the whole two years, which we could be friends and communicate.
While we are alive
I was friends with a very pleasant girl, smart, cute, dividing my interests. At some point she married. We began to be friends, as they say, families.
But once I argued with her husband, the dispute went to the quarrel, he spent nasty and some disgusting insults. The girlfriend chose after this quarrel silently reduce my communication with her no.
I myself did not draw it out of life. We do not communicate now, but if she wants to restore the relationship, I agree. Because friendship and general memories are more expensive, and while we are alive, everything can be fixed.
Hoochuckle
My ex-husband ridiculed the hobbies and views of my girlfriends. Never did it directly. At first, it appeared near me with a friend with a neutral conversation and it seems to be in the living room (I love to sit with someone in the kitchen). But then it turned out that he was carefully listened to our conversations.
At the next appearance of a friend, no descend, pure for a joke, began to felt people who do not eat meat / are fond of sewing dolls / fear butterflies and so on. I did it with the most innocent look, as if I did not know that it was our guest sewing dolls. A little chatted with us in this way and again leaving.
Girlfriends became unpleasant to come to me, and I myself could not leave anywhere from home, I sat all the time with my little twins. At some point I began to choke without communication, well, not only, the husband is the next, the more unpleasant sides were found.
Fortunately, the girlfriend ultimately did not forget about me, we now communicate again and when divorced they helped me. We were very glad that I parted with my husband, and I understand them fully. Of course, he thus ridicule me in this way.
Fortunately, did not come!
With our girlfriend, almost reached parting because of men. First, we are all four of us as friendly. And then in the turporate, in the mountains, away from civilization and trauma, the husband's girlfriend almost knocked my eye guy.
They, of course, collapsed. We had a guy to interrupt rest and go to the hospital. After that, it became impossible to be friends with couples. The girlfriend even refused to come to my birthday, because her husband could not go with her, and without him she did not want to go. I was very offended.
Our communication somehow comes to no, we have not seen enough. But then, although the guys did not make himself up, and my friend and we still set up relations again. Our men, of course, are not glad, well, and fools.
Just believe
The girlfriend had a husband. And I had a husband. The girlfriend was friends with my husband, and I - with her. And five years I thought: it is necessary, what a good husband I have, with him it is so interesting, he knows so much, not the fact that my unsolving ending the culinary technique.
Then I dreamed with my husband. The girlfriend continued to be friends with him, not understanding what he was unsolved, and I continued to be friends with her husband. And they, have a friend with her husband, did not fit. They did not coincide. As if someone at the top then confused our pairs. They both complained about each other ... well, in general, I decided (after the injured divorce, I still don't even decide that) that my husband is needed and I love him.
And I carried it. It was elementary: sleep, feed. A week later, painted on the threshold with things. With my friend I met. She said sadly: "Listen, well, he's a feet and asshole! Throw it, he's neither husband, no father can be! Let's live with you in general! "
I refused, friendship ended (we did not quarrel, they just stopped any communication). And her my husband really turned out to be an asshole, who left me in the end without an apartment and the ability to trust people. Friendship, of course, eventually worse.
And the former girlfriend lives with a woman. And I live with a woman. Both we are happy. From the whole story, I carried the only morality: you need to believe my friends, believe, if he says that the asshole is likely to be asshole.
