How to organize sex without commitment and do not get on

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Summer and provokes to frivolous actions: make a tattoo, chill whiskey, buy a dress in the grid (by the way, the last, sorry, squeak fashion). Parties, champagne in the morning on Wednesday and Sex without commitment. Walk - so walk! In the summer everything should be simple. But here are simple rules that should be observed so that it does not painfully hurt.

Do not give yourself

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If you belong to the category of women who are in every meeting see a potential husband and father of future children, and on the first date mentally choose wallpaper in the bedroom, then alas, sex without commitment is not about you. And do not try to follow the fashion, the tips of the girlfriends or kindergarten "everyone is doing". You can not - do not try.

Remember about the main thing

Your goal is to have a good time. And nothing else. Remember this. When you buy condoms. When you boil morning coffee for two. When you negotiate that next time you will try the thing with ice. Sometimes even the most armor-piercing skins of the Cowboy girl periodically gives a crash and want a strong shoulder, on the handles, and that's all this. But perhaps this is a sign that he is the same? Although, we will be honest, perhaps and not.

Carefully choose candidates

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It is unlikely that someone likes it, if every dog ​​will know about his sex life on this side of the planet. Therefore, choose a partner for anything that does not bind sex with the mind. And most importantly - let him want the same thing you. For this reason, a classmate has long been in love with you - not an option. Not an option we said.

Negotiate on the shore

So that it did not work so that your partner believes that you have a rapid romance, striving for a wedding, and you hardly remember him name. To discuss the conditions in advance - the rule of good tone: in this case everyone will know what they go. In extreme cases, they can always be revised. If desired.

Save distance

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There are no conversations of "souls", joint popuga on Friday evening with karaoke, hiking to the dentist (because scary !!!) and personal information. Your goal of joint pastime is sex. So sometimes it is better to do it, and not chat. Too much personal fraught first friendship, then affection, then jealousy, scandals, and so on, - Do you need it?

Do not make reckless promises

Never ever. It is not worth a person with whom you sleep from time to time to promise the moon from the sky, go together to the country, to acquaint with friends, a bulldog puppy and a drum. Although the drum is perhaps possible. The promise is somehow, and the obligation, and sex is supposed to be still without them. It's not good.

Break out easy

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Do not cry, do not suit the hysteria and do not curse the partner along with his relatives until the seventh knee of the genital gypsy curse. Sex without commitment must end the same way as it began: easily, ineffective and with great respect for each other. In the end, you spent cool time, right?

Do not be afraid of anything

If you suddenly understand that this your sex without obligations and look will grow into something more, it is clean and bright, it is not necessary to run away to the nearest swamp and try to get drowned in it. Life is beautiful, which is completely unpredictable, so do not be afraid of anything and boldly go towards change. The main thing is to do what I want. And what I do not want - do not.

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PS Pro STD and protection modestly remind in post scripting. You maybe, fresh, like the May Rose, but the partner is unknown where the time remains from your sex exercises. Watch your back!

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