One of the permanent fears of parents is sexual crimes against children. How to understand that the child has encountered or may face a monster?
It is impossible to secure 100% to securely, but it is worth considering the following facts.
The rapist or disorder is almost always - from a close environment
There are cases when rapists (alcoholics, serial maniacs, adolescents, and so on) attacked right on the streets or in the entrances of the houses, taped the victim deliberately or used that the child accidentally turned out to be alone.Nevertheless, much more often the child becomes a victim of a relative, a friend of the family, a neighbor or a teacher. In addition, if a person enters the circle of communication of the child, he will try to seem particularly reliable and charming. From just an ordinary reliable and charming person to distinguish it.
Therefore, it is worth being attentive to the fact that the child is strained at the appearance of some relative or a friend, avoids communicating with him, and also demonstrates the behavior characteristic of children who have victims of harassment or rape, for example, night enuresis or an abundance of frankly sexual jokes and games .
Fathers who beat their wives, four to six times more often practicing incest
One of the reasons why it is dangerous to remain with a tyrant, dissolving hands - an increased risk of violence or plants against children.
Fathers-rapists for foreign people can be rude or cute, no matter. Those and others unites attitudes towards his wife and children as something that belongs to them, and the tendency to blame someone from their loved ones.
Mothers-violent meet much less often, but they are also characteristic of angry, aggressiveness, attitude to the child as a property.
From encroachments on the part of parents of both sexes suffer more often girls than boys.
Hunter for children in social networks will be introduced by a teenager
Perverts play first on the passionate desire of unpopular children to find, finally, such a friend, as in books and movies, and then on the fear of punishment.They represent children, as a rule, the same sex and age, communicate first "for interests", then about love, translate the conversation to the intimate question zone and at the same time pulling different secrets (garages in school, smoking for garages).
Then blackmail secrets to make send naked photos, and can share the opportunity to earn through Skype (as a rule, the amounts are very small, because for a teenager and 500 rubles of personal money can be wealth), posing naked. Video from Skype is again used for blackmail, and the child declines to ensure that it began to provide intimate services in real life.
In general, the details of the process may vary, but blackmail and naked photos will always participate in it.
Best Prevention is a conversation with children about network security. It is impossible to break off personal information, ranging from the address of living, and send your naked photos, even to compare how you lose or mature.
As soon as someone begins to blackmail you by secrets, everything rolls towards more and more terrible victims who will be faster than her mother's punishment for cigarettes. Each child should know this firmly.
Teenagers who revised porn
A study of the wave of adolescent sexual crimes in the UK showed that the desire to imitate porn - the leading motive for adolescents (more often than girls), attackers in children younger than themselves. The special danger of such crimes is that, little understanding what real sex looks like, teenagers consider porn sample to imitate and sometimes make serious injuries to their victims, repeating different, let's say, professional tricks.
The victim of such a teenager can be a child of any sex, enough to seem to be rapidly defenseless in front of him.
Parents of adolescents should pay attention to the prevention of such crimes, giving their children to understand that pornography is a bad sex guide, repeating the viewed is simply dangerous, as well as seeking an understanding of the conscious consent as the necessary component of the sexual connection.
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