I am five years old looking for ways to deal with one stubborn boy and for two years already - with one even more stubborn girl. I understand - "that Russian is good, then the German death", but I can't share Lifehaki: suddenly it will work for someone else.
# 1. The girl rested the horn and does not want to go home, does not want to go across the road for the handle, does not want to go in the right direction.
- Zoe, listen. I am so tired. I want to go home, but I'm afraid I do not walk. Let's play. You will be like mom and help me. Toddler, assign me home, please?
Takes me by the hand, he does not let go to the apartment itself, on the way saying "go, there."
№2. The boy was driving, but suddenly disagree to defend in the hallway the usual ten minutes of a timeout on thought.
- Ignat, come on an adult. For violation of the law, punishment is relied. In an adult world, when a person is judged, his lawyer asks to replace the punishment or make it less. Choose - Going and ten minutes cost or pay a penalty from the piggy bank?
It goes to the hallway, because the piggy bank is a pity.
Number 3. Eats soup, but wants sweet.
- I'm full.
- Okay.
- I will no longer soup.
- Okay.
- Give me a bun.
- I'm not giving it. You were a member. If there is still a bun from above, then this is an increment and you will be bad.
- But I did not eat!
- Tableless soup?
- Very tasty.
"Then weaving, since I did not eat, and if the soup would be a little, then I will give a bun and anything else, while you are not like.
Two minutes of covers, sits down, donates.
№4. Child a year and a half, the child does not want breakfast.
We put the same in your plate, we supplement something else for the illusion of diversity, sit down and silently eat.
- Mom, give Yeah.
- No, it's my food.
- Yesa-ah-ah-ah !!! (tears)
- Well, on, try.
The entire portion is eaten if feeding with its fork from its plate and reluctantly.
№5. Cross in the shoulder is easy, but the injection in the ass is for nothing. And it is necessary in the ass, tomorrow operation.
"Choose: You're afraid, and I hold you tightly, or are you afraid, but staying for me yourself, and I let me swear in pirates?"
- (Slobypes) himself! Karamba! Hall! (Cross Made)
And now they have so. Yes, everyone needs to explain to children, and explain as it is. Just sometimes what seems to us with a secondary argument, for them it turns out to be the argument.
The son once asked me: "Mom, why the teacher, when I do not want to draw, tells me that I should, and does not say that I am interested in?", And I thought - but the truth!
Sometimes I said that, refusing to draw with everyone, he loses the opportunity to participate in the beauty that they create together, it worked.
Lectures for benefits - no, about beauty - easy.
When the daughter does not want to sleep, the husband tells her that she is a cat, and the cat must be rest, and Zoya can not sleep, the main thing is to sleep the cat, and she falls, meows, he strokes her, and she closes his eyes.
When Ignat in four years I did not want to study all these hooks and sticks, I gave him an unnecessary duvet cover instead of paper, and we painted the forest, grass and other nonsense from hooks and wands, and everything suited him. We passed through the cleaning of the teeth on one leg to check whether it would be, and after the choice "just stay two hours or sleep for five minutes."
Through "Let's check if you can wear you with closed eyes." Through "Let's consider how many porridge spoons remained in a plate, and it is not clear to the eyes." Through "Whoever finishes its home work, he decides what will be for dinner."
The most difficult thing is to guess what it will work. But only one helps here - put yourself in place of the child.
No, do not remember yourself as a child, but it is to get into the place of this small in harm, which right now went to failure.
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