In fact, there is no magic vaccination from treason. People change - and damn actively. Polls show that it makes about every fifth. How not to get into this insufficient statistics?
Do not think that it is impossible
The bottom line is that treason can happen in any respect. Even in the most vanilla and beautiful. "Also change only bastards" - the biggest misconception associated with treason. We do not argue, bastards are really found - soulless serial traitors who do not care about the feelings of neighboring. But most often people do not leave in the evening from the house with the thought "And do not make me a rapid incineration"?
Treason is a novel on the side, and the novels often grow out of friendship or friendship - and this can happen long before physical treason. And it happens often when a person misses something in those relationships that already exist. Optional sex. It may be respect, recognition, sincere interest, fun or courage. There are not someone's vicious neckline and taking biceps in the treason, but an unfulfilled thirst for understanding and recognition.
Decide what is considered treason for you
Here the spread is huge - alone believes that any physical contact is considered, even just for the handles to hold. Others, with childhood, used to hugging and smacking friends of any sex. Even more complicated with a change of more subtle dressage - many psychological treason in the form of long sincere conversations are terrible than any orgy. And their partners do not understand why they are talking about, because for them treason is exclusively sharing liquids. Each of his point of view seems obvious, and we usually do not speak this topic at all. In vain - if you do not clarify this question, there may be a voltage, which will be pushing someone to treason.
Hold on next
Very often, people change when the partner is for a long time somewhere wears. Many even tech justify themselves - if there are no alternatives in the form of a partner, then the cheating is like not to betray.
But the emotional absence affects the risk of treason no less than physical. The stronger intimacy, the lower the chances that someone will lead to the left. Unlike friends, partners are often perceived as due - having lived several years together, we can ignore them, spend evenings in different rooms and disappear from conversations. What we are, that we are not - everything is one.
Do not humiliate
You have long been our own people and seem to delicate. And here there are sarcasm and depreciation - we can humiliate partners in a joke or just to demonstrate their bad mood. We are confident that they all understand and are not particularly offended. But humiliation, which wrapper does not wrap it - the most destructive thing for the relationship.
