The success of your romance depends not only on what you do, but also from what you do not. Of course, it is important to pay attention to the little things, but it is even more important just to ignore some elephants in the room.
Unlimited tips of relatives and friends
This does not mean that the closest needs to be ignored, because the prince is your only light in the window. Of course not. But keep the share of healthy skepticism, listening to their recommendations. They have their own experience that can not approach your situation. Girlfriend, who passed through the hell Abuse, can recommend running, dropping sneakers, at the first conflict. Aunt, grown in a completely different cultural field, will advise "to bind a guy baby." Soviets of loved ones are not truth in the last instance, so do not hesitate to ignore them - especially if you did not ask for them.
Disadvantages that are not amenable to correction
That is almost all flaws. Do not give up illusions - you will not be able to change a person. It may change himself, if he wants, but you do not affect this process. He is dirty, he is scarce, he does not like to hang out and loves to argue. Ok, can you live with it? If so, then everyone leaves them alone. Exception - Disadvantages that are life and health - like a tendency to dissolve hands or alcoholism. Then it is better to leave a person entirely, you have one.
Past
You are not covered in the storeroom Time Machine, no? That's it. The past went away, no one will change anything in it, and there is no constructive in order to peck someone's brain because of the cars broken three years ago, that mop that was with him to you or some long ago.
Your former
Simply put, the former are those who cannot be called. Never. Neither in order to tell how they were the garbage of society, neither to hint the present that before you had completely princes and gentlemen. And even more so no need to mention the former in the context "and you are the same, all of you are the same." These are completely different relationships. When you first went on a date, the counters were reset.
Changes in the bedroom
Everyone says that after ten years of marriage frolic like rabbits. Most lying. For those in relationships for a long time, sex twice a month - the average. Yes, you will start somewhat cool to the charms of each other. And this is normal - abnormally scrupulously calculate times and timing and make far-reaching conclusions from it.
