You are your tickets to Opera - and he is again at the meeting, you about your future with him - and he is about the prospects of his own career, comes at 5 am and says that from work, and in 8 leaves back. How to live if your man is a workaholic and a careerist? PICS.ru knows!
Smilac
An adult person will not redo, and a man who decided to focus on his career and work - and is suppressed. He rushes forward with the stubbornness of the tank, not paying attention to any little things like to sleep, there are sometimes to relax. If a person decided to treat himself, then he himself will not understand that the business is rubbish and so it is impossible, even mom, wife and specialty "Maritime Catics" is unlikely to stop him.
Analyze it
If a man has become a workaholic suddenly, it is quite possible to think about what he is looking for in the work of salvation from family troubles. Think: Whether you didn't drink it by the fact that the car has a new car, and Katya has a new dress, and how are you a horse in a coat and where the loot? Maybe you settled your mom and regularly tells him about how to live? Or are you a lovedant yourself to lay down and promote relationships, and he would love to sleep and sleep? In short, how is any intelligent person, start with myself - suddenly and on the mirror will not have to make a penalty?
talk to him
If you put up with the existing position of affairs, you categorically do not intend, then go to the arena negotiations. The sword, whip, gingerbread, handcuffs and all the other arguments at first should not stand up, do not post all the cards immediately. And in no case do not become an ultimatum from the series "or weekend with family - or your fucking work!" - They simply do not act at work (at best), and often simply feel. Here you must act neatly, patiently and with great love.
Fuck princesses
If your active nature requires immediate activity, you can assume a weak and defenseless: without a man you can't solve anything with a smooth account. The crocodile is not caught, the coconut is not growing, the horses are not lit, the horses will not jump, the complete number of uncovered. Only his sharp mind and solid hand are able to bring order in the rapid chaos of your collaboration. So tell him.
Think about him
Perhaps your favorite man is a real trees. He is gracious to money, fame, recognition of colleagues and leadership and awareness of self-esteem and importance. In addition, he really believes in his exclusivity that he cannot entrust his affairs to anyone else. These are children's injuries, mixed on vanity and child resentment. Then just love it more. And sex, by the way, there is not a last role.
Is it paranoia?
One girl thought that her husband was a workaholic and a careerist, all proudly told that he was working at 20 o'clock a day, he had already earned a bunch of all sorts of nishtyakov, but unfortunately, it often disappears at work. And then it turned out that a career is called a love, she is 22, she is his secretary and is in an intersend position for a couple of months as. So love-love, confidence-confidence, but the permanent vigilance has not yet harmed anyone. Terrible eye Gryum could not be mistaken!
Philosophical approach
Better workman than an alcoholic, agree? The philosophy, of course, shakes downstairs, but you knew with whom they are binding.
Mind your business
While you are making a career yourself, you are doing a favorite hobby, embroider with a cross and generally spend the time to get upset because a man again at work will have no time. And together you can spend the weekend and vacation. Again, provided that it is satisfied with both.
Integrate!
Tell me to work. Become a personal assistant, for example. You imagine how long the meeting, meetings, for sure to be aware of when he has a swimming pool, and when the beer and a bath with friendships. Total control! (in this place a demonic laughter)
Just love it
Yes, a careerist, yes, workaholic, yes, the last time you have dinner normally without mobile phones and check mail a month ago, and on vacation were not for a couple of years. But you chose him myself, myself decided to be with him in the mountain and in joy, and if you really love him, then you need to allow your beloved man to be as he wants. If life with a careerist is not the limit of your dreams, well, there are about 3 billion men on Earth, choose - I do not want!
