Relationships in a pair are almost never smooth - even in perfect pairs there are crisis periods and falls. Moreover, for this not always need a serious occasion. On the emotions, the couple makes the decision to part in order to no longer see each other, but as soon as passions are going to, remember pleasant moments and the old relationship I want to resume. But is it worth doing this?
By default, it is believed that women are more sentimental and emotional that they are more trained in the girlfriend's vest. But in fact, men are prone to this all, with the only difference that they exhibit their emotions they are not so obvious.
After some time after the gap, each of the participants of the couple thinks over to resume past relations. And despite the fact that more often the environment is trying to dissuade from a similar step, the steam itself is more susceptible to what he lost at break.
In the most difficult situations, people seek help to psychologists, but this, unfortunately, does not always give expected results. Therefore, not to lose your and someone else's time before trying to give a second chance to relationships, take a few steps:
• Perely think about what led to the rupture of the relationship. It often happens that the pair breaks up for some nonsense, just on emotions and misunderstanding. And in this case, it is simple to restore the relationship. And the situation is quite different, if the cause of separation was the treason and betrayal.
• If you decide to resume relationships, then be prepared for the fact that you have to forget everything bad what was between you in the past. If starting from a new leaf, reproach the partner of the past - it will only aggravate the situation. Remember, from pure sheet - it means with a clean sheet.
• In renewal of relations, it is very important to learn not only to speak yourself, but listen carefully and hear the partner.
• Psychologists are advised not to be lazy and to repeat the partner to repeat what you want to convey to it. There are often cases when a person really does not understand what was wrong, and why the quarrel and scandal had happened, which led to the gap last time. • And remember, if a man is really your ideal and your half, you will have to have a serious job in order to resume already broken relationships.