It's time to leave the incorrect romance to the view that you can do without words: to get real pleasure, you need to be able to voice your desires.
Prepare
It is clear that while you know do not know where you have a clitoris and what is guaranteed to bring you to orgasm, then your partner will not be able to know this even if you are your horoscope on five sheets with notes. So act, sister.
Do not be shy
And tell what you want. Take a knee? Discuss the creativity of Bach immediately after orgasm? So that he finally stopped shy and put a finger to you in the ass? Tell him about it.
Ask
Do not be afraid to seem funny or stupid. If you feel free to call things with your own names, you can definitely specify - "so good?" Or "Do you like?" - It will be better. And then not even an hour, it is possible to find out that while you, glowing saliva and it is clear what, in tearsa did a deep blowjob, your partner slept.
Choose the moment
We will be honest, the bed is still not a place for conversations, however, before or after sex, it is quite possible to gently voice your intentions, desires or moments that require correction. Keyword - "carefully".
Not rubbish from the shoulder
For most people, sex is a rather intimate and taboo part of life, so it is worth being the most delicate when discussing it. The frankness is cool, but unprepared it can shock
Voice in the main thing
Sometimes it's really understandable without words, and short enough "faster! Above! Stronger!". However, remember that all people are nice when they are praised, and if you finished 18 times, then the partner must say about it. And give the medal. Chocolate.
Do not go
If the partner has already crumbled with millions of compliments to a blowjob in your performance, you should not ask him to repeat it on the bis to lay out in instagram. Do not appreciate it.
Brevity is the soul of wit
Say what you think, and think what you say. Do not go into extensive reasoning and explaining your own irrational desire to feel his tongue in the ear. Just say that you want it. If that, saying "no" he can. By the way, you should also be able to.
Do not remember the past
Well, that is, it would be clear that the dialogues from the series "Dima, it was cool !! But we are with Volodya ... "This is a failure. Partner is not at all necessary to know about your past victories, achievements and group sex on a grandmother's loggia. Even if he asks himself, though.
Determine Terminology
Often, people cannot call things with their names, and "kiss me there" sounds much mysterious and more pleasant than "baby, what about cunnilingus?". If you already have your own mini-dictionary, then this is fine, if not, and you are the embodiment of the trembling Lani, then think about creating it. Then it does not have to invent a new definition for the clitoris for the hundredth time.
Have fun
If you can't talk at all during sex, relax, finally, and do not suffer yourself. Still, they are engaged in pleasure, so get it silently like a fish if you want. Maybe it is you enter into a miserable number of percent of people who have everything cool and without words?
