Psychologists stand out five types of change, where each has its own prerequisites. Knowing about them, you can prevent the infidelity of your loved one, just better learning your partner.
Treason "Romantic"
To this type of treason belongs to those not burdened with the problems of life, but saturated with emotions, the same resort novels. The personality, who constantly rushing in search of something better. As for resort novels, they often find people who are deliberately looking for such relations, and only a small percentage of individuals are drawn in them by the will of the case.Resort novels Especially talked pieces - all pleasures are concentrated in such relations - a new situation, new people, all problems automatically remain in another city. People can completely liberate under the action of some incognito. Romance will still be completed at the end of the vacation, and no one will know about the relationship.
Treason as a protest
Such treason occurs in cases where the partner moves the desire to pump its chosen one. Often, such infidelity is not performed, it is not spontaneously, but very obviously - a person is purposefully looking for a treason, when and where it happens, and then everything is supplied to the pocket of the pile.
The peculiarity of this treason is that after the accomplished, the classifier does not experience any guilt for him, and he transfers all responsibility to his partner who "brought" it to such a state.
Treason as a way to complete the relationship
Such situations are when the relationship is completely exhausted, but weighing reasons to complete them, no. It often happens that the second participant in relations does not even realize that everything is so bad, because in a normal situation such things are solved by conversations with subsequent parting, if nothing cannot be fixed. But if he decided to end everything and does not fall into the dialogue, it is easier for him to make treason.It's funny, but even the tired of relationships and want to stop them, the declared infidelity also does not want to take responsibility for what is happening, so in secret hopes that the partner himself learns about everything and will initiate in the gap.
This type of betrayal is often selfish and lazy personalities who seek to avoid conflicts and uncomfortable conversations at any cost.
Treason as a result of sexual promiscuity
This category includes treason with the participation of mothers of easy behavior. In this case, we are talking about ordinary women, who will always find an excuse for their infidelity. For some sex is a drug, without which they cannot live, for others it is a way of self-affirmation. But whatever the true cause of what is happening is abnormally. And beside the sexually loose man is more expensive - it will not fix it already, and only branches and branches will become a partner's horns.
Treason to attract the attention of the partner
And this is the thintest treason of all, above presented, and the main question is whether treason is open or closed. True, in any case, the modifier will remain in the loser position. If the treason is open, then when the partner learns about what is happening, he, of course, will minimize all the attention on his chosen one, but it will not save relationships, rather, on the contrary. With a secret treason, the partner will not know anything, it will not attract his attention and then what's the point?
Those who want to attract the attention of a loved one, psychologists advise not to go on such a radical step like treason. To "wake up" a partner will be quite innocent flirting on the side, which will cause jealousy. But this advice is very individual and depends on the characteristics of the person. If a partner is very jealous, for example, then such behavior will only annoy it, will cause aggression and can provoke a break of relationships. Therefore, even in the flirting case on the side it is worth exercising caution and start with small "dosages".