Each young couple dreams of his own housing, but for many it remains a dream. The financial side of the question often becomes a stumbling block. Young forced to live with their parents, it's certainly sad, but you can not get anywhere. It is very important for not despair. There are simple rules that will help facilitate joint accommodation.
The first thing to do is correctly distribute the budget. Otherwise, you will be considered a feller who hanged on the neck of their unfortunate son. Usually in such cases utilities pay equally. Try to take these money as an untouchable stock. If you miss the payment, the parents first grieve, but if the scandal arises, they will definitely remind you of your omission. Sometimes parents themselves propose to pay for all accounts. If you are forced to agree with them, then take part of other expenses. This may be, for example, buying some products. Thus, you show not only your solvency, but also independence. Parents will perceive you more seriously, you will show them on our actions, which are ready for family life.
For parents, you will always stay by children, but it does not mean that you must make actions that only strengthen their views. Shout and prove that you are adults - no way out. Only small children are trying to defend their point of view in this way. Prove your independence actions. Do not worry, the life of generous on the test. Decide your problems yourself, just as a last resort, ask for help from parents. Over time, they humble and will not interfere in your life. Just do not give them a reason.
If you live with your parents, your personal space is limited to your room. It is hard to hide the resentment, because it is not enough to quarrel normally in the presence of parents. Try not to take the quarrel from the room. Find out your relationship in the absence of foreign people. It is better to go to the park and so express everything to each other there, just do not arrange conflicts for parents.
If you came to live in someone else's house, you need to restrain your emotions. No one asks you to turn into a gray mouse, but in something they will have to do. It is possible that mother-in-law can do not very correct actions and wet into your personal space, criticize you, give unnecessary advice. All the screaming deeds of the mother-in-law be sure to discuss with her husband, try not to arrange hysteria. If you cry and scandal, and mother-in-law, in turn, will drink Valerian, you put your husband before a difficult choice. It will be between two lights. Do not put it before choosing, otherwise one day he may not be in your favor.
You must understand that you were allowed in this house as a daughter, but the main in this house are cooler with mother-in-law. They are the owners of this house, so you will have to endure the habits of this family, even if they don't like you. If you prove your superiority - you will suffer Fiasco. Try to become good neighbors. It will be fine if you will discuss different moments in advance that your personal space touch.