It often happens that a woman is very hard to understand the thoughts of a young man. She is still waiting when he will take the first step, and their relationship will move to a new level. But for some reason this does not happen. Why is a man not ready for relationships?
The past is the most common reason why a man is not ready to meet and live with a girl - this is an unsuccessful past experience in relationships. It is possible that after parting with a former girl, a man fell into depression, and now his thoughts about marriage are very frightened. Such people seek to avoid serious conversations about the future, because they are just afraid of them.
In this case, the girl is not to blame for that it happened. There are two exits from the situation. The first is just to leave and give it time to be alone. The second is to stay near and just wait until the man stops thinking about the past and pay attention to the girl. But many make a mistake, starting to perform the role of the mother, which you can tell everything and cry. Do not do so. In any case, if a girl likes a man, he will definitely find the strength to forget about the past. It is too young possible that the partner is simply not ready for a serious relationship due to age. For example, in 16-19 years old are very few guys who are ready to take all responsibility to themselves and start creating a family. This is because they are not ready for such relationships in financial plan, neither morally.
Not only guys, but also adult men after 40 years can be unprepared to relationships. You do not have to convince such people in our right. If a man said he is not ready for relationships, then you don't need to invent anything, because the answer lies on the surface - he is simply not ready. Everyone has the right to solve questions about creating a family, and no one is not necessary to blame for it. Freedom are all familiar with the fact that freedom ends after marriage. Every man is heard that, during a family life, the girl will cease to follow himself, refuses to cook, will not let a man relax with friends and so on.
That is why many men believe that their freedom will immediately be limited. In this case, you can only wait until he persuades himself. In extreme cases, you can leave. But it is not worth it to change his views, because it will not lead to anything good.
It is important to remember that if a man does not want a relationship, it does not mean at all that it is necessary to suffer and kill on him. It is best to find a hobby for yourself, spending time with friends, sign up to the gym. Then the necessary men themselves will reach for a woman.