Unfortunately, many people today prefer to stay in "bad", toxic relationships, because they are afraid to be lonely and are criticized by others. But the truth is that loneliness is not completely scary, and there is nothing to be ashamed. Almost all girls are very afraid of being lonely.
And they can convince them to discharge them, which will make them feel really terrible. Then they understand that it is scary - not to be lonely, but to consist in the "shit" relationship.1. No need to be afraid to be one, the one who does not allow to be
So, let's start with what you need to be with a guy who does not accept you what you are, and does not value it. A guy who cannot accept your shortcomings and is constantly trying to remake "to your taste." Someone who criticizes every one's step, who makes you feel that you do nothing well. A guy who does not allow you to do what you like, and who limits your freedom. It is worth thinking about it for a minute and understand that it is easier to be alone.
2. It is better to spend time alone than in a bad company
Why you need to be afraid to have lonely in your favorite restaurant, walk in the movie yourself or go shopping alone if you feel comfortable. After all, it is much worse to do all this with someone who does not like to spend time with you and considers it just an inevitable duty.3. It is better to sleep alone than waking up next to a stranger
Yes, undoubtedly, sometimes it happens to go to bed very sad and wake up alone. But it's much more worse than waking up and not to know a person next to him, who, as previously thought, you know so well. But it is quite realistic that after a while the boyfriend will not be the charming, loving, kind, gentle and compassionate guy who fell in love. And it's possible to imagine - wake up next to a guy who stopped love and take care of you, for which you mean anything else.
4. It is better to make mistakes than being not with that guy
Errors are part of life, and often they are the most valuable lessons that life can teach us. No need to be afraid to make mistakes, because they teach us what you need or do not need. It is better to be afraid to be not with that guy who will deceive with sweet words and promises, but will not really love.5. You need to be afraid not to make love, but make love, without feeling your beloved
It is unlikely that anyone wants to be with a guy who focuses more on the physical aspect of relations than on an emotional, guy who is good in bed, but lacking genuine emotions, and who cares only to satisfy their needs. Which sees you more as an object than as a person who has needs and desires. Is he deserving to be with him ... is not better to make love with a man with whom you feel warm and love.
6. Conversations with those who do not understand
Surely, it was experiencing each - you say with a boyfriend, and he is "present only physically" and never listens carefully what he is being talked. What about boring conversations with a young man, with whom nothing to talk about. Or constant criticism, when your ideas do not respect, opinions and views and attempts to convince that only he always knows what is true, but what is not. Why should you be with those who cannot conduct informative and interesting conversations ... because in the end it will become boring.7. Need to be afraid not to cry, but get a moral injury
Tears are not a sign of weakness at all. But it is worth being afraid to be with a guy who is able to wander the feeling and break the heart to whom the Spirit is enough to lie and deceive who will not be ashamed to make a bunch of false promises and justification when he spoils everything. It is not necessary to worry about not because you can cry, but what can you be with a guy who will not take care of what you feel, and who will not treat you with love, respect and compassion.
8. It is better to be lonely, and not with a guy who do not care for you
It is much easier to learn to enjoy the loneliness, and not to devote yourself a guy who does not deserve even your nail. It often happens that the guy belongs to his girlfriend, as to his choice, and not as a priority of his life.
You need to be near a person who makes you feel your beloved, protected and emotionally complete. A man who can hear unspoken thoughts, feel the emotions, spoke without words, and reach the very depths of your soul.