After parting, I often want to immediately recoup, show the former Fig and win the race "and who will quickly find a stunning pair." Yes, and a lonely life after many years spent with someone, naturally scares.
Hold the horses and to start check ourselves - and are you ready to go on dates again?You reluctant to send a suit to your former at 3 o'clock in the morning
Do not start a new novel until the previous one is finished. And he is not finished, if you still dream of removing the former pillow, or roaring Brugoga over joint photos, or repulse friends with lengthy monologues about his lead.
Here's a simple test: I remember, when you were the last time it was, to write him and express everything (what is everything? Is it all everything!)? If last week - the cooled, you still have something to work on.
You are quite independent
To start some kind of new "we", you must first figure out the "I". If you hook from loneliness, you are panicly afraid that you become an old virgin or you can't wait to find some kind of volunteer to solve your problems - sit at home while. Learn to be happy in one fellow.
You put priorities
Why do you need to start a new fan, if the old one did not sentence your night events on your favorite job? Relationships require damn a lot of space and time. Are you sure you can squeeze them into your schedule? Because if you and the head, there is no time to wash, then on such a resource-proof enterprise, like a novel, time is definitely not enough.You like you yourself
Good-quality relationships can only increase the existing adequate self-esteem. But if self-esteem is below the plinth, then do not think that now some prince will come, kisses the frog and it will turn to Natalia Vodyanova.
You know what you want
The skies possess some kind of perverted sense of humor. As soon as you decide what has been outlined your way, they appreciate you, who goes in a diametrically opposite direction and drags you.In the mind and instead of Moscow-City, go to the village, spread the goats, there is nothing terrible. If only you agree with this and do not intend to complain to the gray-wing books that this fool dragged me to the virgin, and could be already a top manager.
You learned a lot on your mistakes
Conflicts detect the worst in people. Surely last time they clearly demonstrated that you were not Mother Teresa. You are jealous. Harmful. Love to stick. It's nothing. The main thing is that you know about your shoals and ready to eradicate them. Because if the former suffered from your jealousy, but the future will too.
Are you ready
Parting can be a very simple Shake, after which you become staggering from the guys like damn from Ladan, and in each to see the potential scoundrel. It passes - a little slower than a runny nose, but ultimately passes. If you do not consider all those surrounding men with some kind of muddy personalities, then go ahead, discourage your faithful Tinder.