Some people are upset that we have no culture in the country of wine, others - that the fishery culture is slightly higher than zero. And we sincerely sick for the culture of relations and especially parting. Here is beautiful, as in the Italian movie, things from the balcony leave - this is our. And it is even to the place, if the former is that there is a goat. Or you are the same goat.
And if you are both good people? Just the relationship has been exhausted. Or turned out to be a mistake from the very beginning. How to part then so that there is no painful shame? There is nothing in the head, except for the serial "case not in you, the matter in me" does not climb. And about half, which he will also find. PICS.ru hurries to help! Here is a list of very important rules of cultural parting.Choose the moment
Parting is not a cat sneezed, it is impossible to talk about it between the case, let you know by SMS or a message in social networks. An email and call is also so-so ideas. Choose the moment when you both can carve at least ten minutes and get together opposite each other. Even if you are not ready to look into his eyes, be with him at least face to face. Warning that the conversation is serious, urgent and, perhaps, sad.
Choose place
If you do not live together, the ideal will be public ... and not related to your common romantic memories. Yes, and if you gathered, it is better to bring partner to this conversation somewhere.Do not give false hopes
Call the cause of parting
For some reason, it is important for leaving it. "I talked a lot about how my lifestyle annoys me ... at some point I realized that I could never come to terms with it. We are too different, sorry, "- good. "Sorry. I loved the other, "- Also nothing. But the listing of old disorders, turning into disassembly - is not good anywhere. If the conversation begins to roll there, bend. "No matter. I'm leaving. Everything."Craise
It always looks stupid and almost never later does not work as at rehearsals. But at least the reference points for the conversation in your head put down. In extreme cases, you can ask you to knock you down and give to finish to the end, because for you it is the same complex conversation as for him.
Register the scenario of further action
Thank you
Without the observation of Chekhov's "Seagull". Just say thanks for the good thing that was between you. And reminded the old and unfading - "there was yes." Well! So the world is arranged.Shake your hands. For farewell
Just because the separation scene is terrible awkward and as if stretched and stretched. The most civilized and neutral way to put a point in it - this particular one.
Just remember If somewhere in the middle of the script you are thrown to blame you in every sin, ignore, make fun or shoot down the conversation aside, score to the cultural scenario. Praphrazing Jerome Clap Jerome, this gentleman is visible, not a gentleman. Well, so hell with him then! They came to him the farewell smiley SMS.