Many people faced such a phenomenon as unfinished relationships. This is when you still love a partner, and he already threw you. This is when the rupture of the relationship occurred, and you did not expect and did not want. This is when the betrayal of the second half occurred at a time that was favorable for love. In other words, if the relationship is rupture, with which the person cannot accept, then the union becomes unfinished.
Incorrect relationships are the actual absence of the Union, but psychological and emotional attachment to the former partner. A person may even build a new relationship with another partner, but the presence of feelings and bindings in his soul and binding to the former makes him remember and grieve behind him.
Unfinished relationships need to be stopped, close, let go in the past. It is easy to say, but it's hard to do, especially when you do not know what to do. Give such advice that help complete what has long been left in the past
1. Take the action that you did not have time to do at the end of the relationship. In other words, an emotional binding to the past relationship is that the person still did not say something or did not do with his former partner, to finally release everything.
It may be a farewell conversation, where a person tells about his experiences and remains heard. It can be a revenge when a person sees the torment of his former partner. This can be some action, for example, breaking relationships at your own request.
What exactly keeps you in past relationships? What would you like to do with your former partner, so that you finally calmed down and left everything in the past? It is necessary to understand what you want, and then carry out the desired in reality. This can be done: • With a former partner, if he agrees and will be affordable. • With a psychologist who will play the role of former lover. • With a new beloved person who will be indifferent to you.
In other words, to complete the relationship that has long ceased to exist, you need to make that act or tell those words that I would like to express that the soul finally became good and calm.
2. Realize the impossibility of continuing the relationship, the absence of any future with that person you are holding. Here you do not need to persuade yourself. Apply the presentation technique (visualization). Imagine that everything happens as you would like - the person you love comes to you and wants to have a relationship with you. Do you accept it? Do you trust him? Do you believe that everything will be fine with you?
Understand that the former partner has already done everything so that you stop him to trust and respect, love and appreciate. He destroyed your relationship or the possibility of their existence. He has already chosen those with whom will be friends and build love relationships. What he offers to you after the destruction of the Union does not fit into a love relationship.
In other words, imagine what you would like to have with a former partner, then ask yourself: "Is it possible after all that this person has already done and from which side I learned it (-Ah)?" Aware that your desire is simply impossible, because even you no longer believe that a person who was supposed to participate in its implementation.
Incorrect relationships most often darken the life of a person and delay him for a long time in the past. Do not rush events and give yourself time to mess around. But do not tighten in order to forget the past so that it does not hoop you.