Ngenkathi abesifazane benziwa ekuthungeleni kwabesilisa, isitezi esinamandla asihlali ngaphandle kwecala futhi sivame ukutadisha izintokazi ezinqobayo. Ikhuthele kakhulu yazo yafundwa ngokuphelele ngamaqhinga wokuphindukuzalwa - angakhipha kabusha nge-Crazy Macho, aphakamisele amaRomanics, amadoda amahle kakhulu omndeni. Kepha kuthiwani uma ngaphansi kwemaski yenkosana enhle kuzoba isihloko sangempela kakhulu nomzenzisi? Eqinisweni, ukubala izinhloso eziyiqiniso nokuvela komuntu akunzima kangako - into esemqoka ukumbheka ngokucophelela nokuthi uziphatha kanjani.
Thayipha "Uyise-Umuzwa"
Uma ukholelwa izibalo, khona-ke i-Order of 80% yabesifazane abasezingeni eliphakeme yilolo hlobo lwamadoda. UyiNhloko yomndeni, ungumsekeli futhi, uma kunesidingo, uzofika ". Ngokuziphatha kwabo, amadoda anjalo axazulula izinkinga zangaphakathi zangaphakathi, azibonakalise ukuthi zinethonya futhi zigcwele. Phakathi kwazo kukhona abaholi abaningi. Ungabona ngokushesha indoda enjengale imishwana evame ukubizwa ngokuthi: "Kufanele", "Kufanele".Enye into ehlukile 'yobaba - abahlubukayo' isifiso sokugcina konke futhi wonke umuntu olawulayo, abantu abanjalo bavame ukubiza imibuzo "kuphi?", "Wenzani manje?"
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwano nendoda enjalo, lona wesifazane uzizwa ekhululekile, kodwa maduze nje kukhona ukuqonda kwakhe ukuthi izifiso zakhe, izidingo nezintshisekelo zakhe zikude nendawo yokuqala. Njengoba inkungu yothando isabalalisa, le ntokazi ibona amaphutha amaningi endodeni enjalo. Uyazithanda, uyicabangela iphelele, futhi uma enezinkinga ebudlelwaneni, khona-ke emehlweni akhe, kunoma yikuphi, uhlangothi lwesibili kufanele lusolwe. Uhlala egxeka isithandwa sakhe futhi azama ukukulungisa: "Uzofunda nini ukupheka amakhefu?", "Udinga ukushintsha i-hairstyle, lokhu akuhambi", "njll.
Ubudlelwano obunjalo bulimaza umfazi - banikela ekulahlekelweni yintshisekelo empilweni, uthando nokuzihlonipha. Ngaphandle kungaba ngabesifazane abaqinile abafuna ukuqina okufanayo nokulawulwa kusuka ohlangothini. Bazothanda ubudlelwane obunjalo. IZIPHUMA EZIQINILE • Okufihlwe ngemuva kwalawa magama: "Silenga, ngikwazi nje ukwazi okungcono lokho okufunayo." • Ukuziphatha okujwayelekile: Ukuzama ukwakha ubuhlobo ngaphansi kwaKho uqobo, engxoxweni kukwenza kucace ukuthi uyazi kangcono izidingo zowesifazane ("ufanelekile ukuwushintsha okungcono kakhulu", " njll.).
Thayipha "hhayi ubungane ngeqiniso"
Ngosizo lwezincazelo eziyimfihlo nezincazelo ezifihliwe, uzama ukuthola ilungelo lokuthola umhlaba wonke. Ngakho-ke, kaningi bathanda i-psychology, hypnosis, NLP, njll. Futhi uma kungenjalo ukufunda manje, kuyakuqeda ukukwenza. Udinga ingxenye yesibili yokuphefumlelwa, ngoba umuntu ophakeme we-Olimpiki akumnandi kangako, njengeNdlovukazi. Ukuze ulondoloze inzalo yomuntu onjalo, kudingeka uhlale unokuphelela okungafinyeleleki kuye. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke ukuba uhambe phambi kwakhe endlini egqoke i-T-shirt ethandekayo enesithandwa ekhanda.
Ubukhulu bengqondo bamadoda anjalo balala ngokuphonsa "ngingubani uqobo" ukuze "ngibe yinto ephelele", ngakho-ke ngiyinto engasho lutho ", ngakho-ke noma ikuphi ukuphawula kwakhe kuye kubuhlungu kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, uhlobo olunjalo lwamadoda lufana nehlelo.
Bakulo amandla amancane okushayela, futhi bavame ukuchaza ukwehluleka kwabo esikhundleni sefilosofi: "Imali ingamaphepha nje, uthuli." Uhlobo olunjalo lwamadoda lungasondela kwabesifazane abavikelekile abadinga isilwane esifuywayo.
Izici ezihlukile • Isigatshana esibonisa: "Eduze kwakho, nginamaphiko ngemuva komhlane wakho." • Okufihliwe ngemuva kwalawa magama: "Ngokuqinisekile awuphumuli nami." • Ukuziphatha okujwayelekile: uthi adalelwe omunye nomunye ukuthi umhlangano wakho uyisiphetho ongasicwila emehlweni akho. Kunezingxoxo eziningi mayelana namaphupho, amacebo futhi ngokujwayelekile mayelana nakho konke okungaphatheki.
Thayipha "i-Pickup Master"
Lokhu fan enkulu fan yePonte, kepha abamele ngakunye balolu hlobo bengavikelekile kakhulu. Bamboza ukungavikeleki kwabo ngokulahlekelwa inani elikhulu labesifazane ngokuyenga kwabo. Azivumelaniswa nendlela yokuphila, ehluka kakhulu futhi eyinkimbinkimbi, ngakho-ke uma ubanikeza ithuba elivela esangweni, kungenzeka ukuthi uzofunda okuningi ngawe uqobo futhi akumnandi. Yize kunjalo, wajwayela ukulahla izintokazi.I-Picapperics isetshenziswa ngumbhalo owodwa okhethiwe, kanye nohlobo lwabesifazane abaqhutshwa ekukhohlisweni okuqala kakhulu kukhethwe.
Ngakho-ke, uma ukhipha kakhulu embhalweni bese ubuza umbuzo ongalindelekile - kudidekile. AmaPicappers asaba kakhulu ubudlelwano obusondelene nabesifazane, ngoba Abanawo umqondo wokuthi ungaziphatha kanjani ngemuva kokusondela okukufeziwe. Indoda yalolu hlobo ayidingi ngowesifazane, izwe lakhe langaphakathi nesidingo sakhe anasithakazelo - Udinga umzimba wakhe ukuzwa ukuphakama kwakhe.
Izici ezihlukile • Isigatshana esibonisa: "Umuhle kakhulu!". • Okufihliwe ngemuva kwalawa magama: "Ngimuhle kangangokuba awukwazi ukumelana nami." • Ukuziphatha okujwayelekile: Ngokoqobo kusuka kumaminithi okuqala akukhathazeki ngezincomo, hhayi njalo uhlelo olunobuhlakani. Isibonelo, kungahle kubonise umugqa omuhle wentambo, izindebe zengqondo nemilenze emincane. Kungabeka usuku ophahleni, kuphakamise ukuncoma izinkanyezi. Usuku lokuqala uzama ukwephula isikhala somuntu siqu futhi uthathe imizamo yokuhudula embhedeni.
Thayipha "Alfons"
Labo bangochwepheshe bangempela kakhulu ekusikeni kwabesifazane. Imvamisa babheka inaliti - umzimba wabo buqiniswa, ukubukeka nezinwele zezinwele ziphelele, futhi imvunulo yehliswa ngokucophelela. Banemikhuba emihle futhi bazi ukuthi benza kanjani izincomo ezinhle. Ngokwezinga elithile, laba basebenza ngengqondo abasengcupheni ngobumnene babala izifiso, abanambitha kanye nezinketho zowesifazane, bese beyisebenzisa ngekhono.
Kuyafaneleka ukusola okunye lapho kubonakala sengathi unendoda efanelekile. Njengawe, uyawathanda amakati, nefilimu yakhe ayithandayo "Yidla, thandaza, thanda", njll.
Akabalulekile ukuvela kowesifazane, akaze awele ezingxabanweni futhi azame noma iyiphi inkathazo ukuze agxume ngokufafaza ngezincomo kanye ne- "Ulyusyukivania". Ukuphela kwento ethokozisayo kuye imali yowesifazane, ngakho-ke, uma iba inzuzo enenzuzo enkulu, ayithululi.
Izici ezihlukile • Isisho esibonisa: "Ngizokwenzela konke!". • Empeleni kufihlwe ngemuva kwalawa mazwi: "Uzoba umxhasi wami." • Ukuziphatha okujwayelekile: Uthi ungcono kakhulu kunemibono yakhe ukuthi isithombe asikwazi ukudlulisa bonke ubuhle bakho. Futhi ngemuva kokudumaza, uzoya esigabeni sengxoxo ngethemba lakhe elingesihle - ngqo noma amacebo azokhuluma ngokuthi kungokugula kwakhe othandekayo usezophuma kanjani efulethini elibunjiwe, ukuthi namuhla kwakuwusuku olubi nakho konke ngesitayela esifanayo. Ngokunokwenzeka, ngosuku lokuqala nohlobo olunjalo, owesifazane kuzofanela akhokhe lo Mthethosivivinywa, ngoba kungukuthi "welule" futhi "ukhohliwe" isikhwama ekhaya.
Thayipha "Indoda Ejwayelekile"
Ngokusho kwezibalo zezibalo zezazi zezengqondo, amadoda ajwayelekile ahlala cishe ngo-10%. Balungiselelwe ukwakha ubudlelwano obukhulu obukhulu lapho izintshisekelo zabo bobabili abahlanganyeli zizohlonishwa.
Kuyena, owesifazane kubalulekile, izimfanelo zakhe zangaphakathi, izinto azithandayo, njll. Kepha kubalulekile kuye ukuthi le ntokazi nayo yayingeyeye.
Ukhuluma ngakho ngqo. Maqondana nomuntu onjalo ongamanga angamukeleki nokukhohlisa.
IZIPHUMA EZIQINILE • ISIHLOKO SOKUFUNDA: "Ngiyakuthanda." • Okufihla ngemuva kwalawa magama: "Ngiyakuthanda". • Ukuziphatha okujwayelekile: Umuntu onjalo ukhombisa isithakazelo esiqotho - uzibuza ukuthi okhethiweyo wakhe ufunda ukuthi iyiphi i-movie ekhethayo, amaphupho amangaki. Uyawahlonipha izintshisekelo zakhe, abonise ukunakekelwa. Umuntu ojwayelekile ukhulumisana ngesizotha futhi aziphathe ngokwemvelo, akazami ukwakha i-macho noma ngeshwa.