Akekho osevele uphikisana neqiniso lokuthi "amadoda ayawathanda amehlo," kodwa yini ngempela eheha kwabesifazane kwasekuqaleni? Amantombazane amaningi akholelwa ukuthi amadoda anaka ngokushesha ibele lowesifazane, kodwa imiphumela yososayensi ocwaningayo abavela eNgilandi abavumelani nalokhu.
Ekuhlolweni kwayo, ososayensi besiNgisi babandakanyeka amadoda angu-1000, iningi lawo, futhi lokhu kungu-700, futhi lokhu kungu-700, kuqinisekiswa ukuthi lapho uhlangana nentombazane, okokuqala, babheka amehlo akhe. Emva kwalokho, phansi okuqinile kuhlaziya ukumamatheka kwamantombazane futhi kuphela ngemuva kwalokho ukunakwa kukhokhelwe esifubeni sabesifazane. Kubaholi abahlanu abaphezulu, lapho amadoda aphonsa khona amehlo awo, kwakukhona nezinwele, nesisindo sabesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho ohlwini luhamba imilenze, khona-ke owesifazane ugqoke kanjani, u-pop, ukukhula futhi kuliphi isimo isikhumba.
Okuhlekisayo, kepha imiphumela yezifundo zecebo elifanayo, eyenziwe ososayensi baseMelika, baphikise umsebenzi ozakwabo abangamaNgisi. Ngokwemininingwane yabo, okokuqala, amadoda abheka indawo, okhalweni nasendaweni yesifuba. Ososayensi baseMelika bangene ezifundweni zabo futhi babala ukuthi ukuhlolwa kwebele kwabesilisa kunikezwa ama-millisecond angama-62, futhi babela ama-milliseconds okhalweni nasemathangeni, futhi kwesinye isikhathi okuncane.
Izazi zezengqondo ziphawula ngokuziphatha okunjalo kulokho lapho zihlangana nowesifazane, amadoda awona "abonise" ukubona konke - okungukuthi, Hlola ukuvumelana kwesibalo sowesifazane.
Kepha akupheleli nje, lona wesifazane kufanele agqoke kahle - cishe wonke amadoda asomafayili ezenzilo nesitayela. Ngakho-ke, ukunakwa kwesitezi esinamandla kudonsela ngentshiseko abesifazane abanezinwele ezinde ezigqoke izithende nezigqoko. Kepha, futhi, udinga ukubheka okuthandwa ngakunye kokukodwa. Ekuhlolweni kwamantombazane, amandla esitezi avela kokuthandwayo komuntu siqu nokunambitha ezingutsheni.
Futhi kuphela ngemuva kokuthi isithombe sibonile ngokujwayelekile, amadoda aqala ukubheka imininingwane, kufaka phakathi amabele kanye nezinkalo. Kepha nomaphi lapho indoda izobukeka khona, nayo incike ekukhetheni kwayo. Ama-aesthetes afana nemilenze yabesifazane, izibambo ezinhle (ukushuba kwe-ankle nesihlakala kungabhekwa), intamo, izipado, njll. - Lapha ukunambitheka nombala, njengoba besho.
Abanye abamele ubulili obuqinile babheka ukukhula kowesifazane, ukuze ube kuye - amadoda aphezulu anweba amantombazane aphezulu, futhi okuphambene nalokho.