Zihlale uzihlale
Futhi ngamanye amagama - ungazami ukwenza sengathi umuntu ongeyena ngempela. Uma owesilisa ethandana nowesifazane osesikhathini sokuthandana ngokuqongelela, khona-ke kunamathuba amaningi lolu thando oluzohlala isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ngaphandle kwalokho, konke kungashintsha ngokushesha ngokushesha lapho inkohliso ivule. Akunakwenzeka ukulala njalo futhi kugcina isithombe esikhethiwe sinzima kowesifazane, futhi singemnandi kumuntu.Qaphela, kungakhathalekile ukutholakala kwezimali
Owesifazane kufanele aze azilandele njalo, ahlale emhle futhi azilungiselele kahle noma ngabe amathuba ezezimali nesikhathi samahhala. Le ndoda ngumnqobi wemvelo, futhi lona wesifazane uyindondo yakhe, okumele aziqhenye ngayo, ekhombisa ukunqoba kwakhe kwabanye. Ikakhulu ukubheka bonke abayi-100, akudingekile ukuba nezigidi ephaketheni lakho, manje kunezindlela eziningi zokunakekelwa okutholakalayo.
Thanda indoda
Naphezu kokweba wonke umuntu koMkhandlu, akukhona konke. Indoda akufanele ibone kuphela uthando lowesifazane, kodwa futhi luzwa. Konke lokhu kuyazibonakalisa kuma-Trifles - Lungiselela izitsha zakhe ezithandayo, qhubeka uhlanzekile endlini ukuze ube muhle ukuba kuyo, ungaphikisi okuthandayo kakhulu, kubonise ukuvela ngokwakho. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanelekile ukukhombisa umhawu omncane, ngokwemvelo, ngaphandle kwamahlazo, ngakho-ke baqonde nje ukuthi bayabathanda, bayakwazisa futhi besaba ukulahlekelwa.Dumisa okhethiwe wakho
Akudingeki ukuthi ukwenzele umkhaza - ukudumisa kufanele kuqhamuke enhliziyweni emsulwa - amanga azwakele kakhulu futhi acasuke kakhulu, ikakhulukazi phansi. Kepha isichibi esifanele siyonikeza umuntu ukuzethemba okuthe xaxa, futhi uzoshintsha izintaba ukuthi ziqinisekise ukuthi umfazi wakhe othandekayo wabancoma futhi.
Musa ukulala ngemibuzo
Ukukhuluma ngenye indlela - vele uthembele nje endodeni yakho futhi ungahleli ngemibuzo, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi esingafanele. Ungazami ukukhipha imininingwane ethile angafuni ukukhuluma, futhi ungazami ukwenza iziphetho ngayo, ihlambalaza isithandwa sakho. Lapha igama elithi "ukuthula - igolide" lifanelekile. Imvamisa, amadoda adinga nje ukukhuluma ukuthi umuntu osondelene naye walalela futhi wasekelwa. Funda ukwenzeka kumlingani wakho ngokucophelela nangekhanda konke akutshele kona.Hlukanisa okungenani izintshisekelo zendoda yakho
Ngezikhathi ezithile, kuyasiza ukuthatha iqhaza labangane abanothando ngezintshisekelo ezihlanganyelwe. Noma ungathandi lutho oluvela ezintweni zokuzilibazisa zakhe, vele uzame okungenani ngokungafanele ukubuza izinto zakhe zokuzilibazisa, noma, kwesinye isikhathi ziba nentshisekelo emakilasini akhe, zibuze imibuzo ngesihloko.
Vele ube ngowesifazane
Ukuze uphile ngesithandwa sakho, upheke kuye izitsha ezimnandi, unikeze umuzwa ongalibaleki embhedeni, ukuzijabulisa naye - konke lokhu kulungile. Kepha akudingeki ukhohlwe ukuthi nawe unazo. Funda ukuzithanda, inhlonipho futhi uyayazisa. Ungabekezeleli amanga, ukuthobeka nokukhaphela - ungakhohlwa ngokuziqhenya nokuzithemba. Indoda yangempela izobonga umfazi wayo, inhlonipho futhi yesabe ukulahlekelwa, futhi uma owesilisa hhayi umuntu, khona-ke owayengakudinga.