Ngokuzalwa kwezingane zakho, izintshisakalo zalabo abahamba phambili abahamba ngemuva. Ingane iba yindawo yonke, nayo imithetho nemithetho kanye nemithetho, izifiso kanye nezidingo. Abazali abasanda kwenziwa bachitha isikhathi sabo sonke isikhathi futhi basebenzise wonke amandla ukukhulisa ingane, bazame ukuqinisekisa ukuthi konke kuyadingeka empilweni futhi banikeze amandla aphezulu. Kepha isikhathi siyeza lapho kufanele ubusise isimo. Lo mzuzu ufika lapho izingane zikhula, futhi abazali abadabukisayo nabanamandla baguga.
Abantu asebekhulile abasakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zasekhaya, abadingi ukunakekelwa nokunakwa kuphela, kodwa nasekusekelweni kwezezimali. Izingane zotshani zisadinga ukunakwa, imali, imali. Kukhona ukungqubuzana kwenzalo - Izinsiza zilahlekile nhlobo.Ngasohlangothini lukabani khona, othanda nokukhathalela kuyadingeka ngokwengeziwe, ungaphuthelwa kanjani okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yezingane futhi unikeze abadala abahle kubazali?
Zonke lezi zinkinga zivame ukuwela emahlombe wowesifazane. Nguyena obhekene nendodakazi enhle, asele umama ongenaphutha. Kepha gcina ukulinganisela kunzima kakhulu! Futhi noma imuphi ogcwele ugcwele imiphumela. Okufanele ngikwenze? Ngubani obaluleke kakhulu - izingane noma abazali? Ngubani ozophila ngaphandle kokunakwa futhi asize?
Kuzokwenzekani uma uchitha isikhathi esanele sezingane?
Khetha phakathi kwezingane nabazali kunzima. Kunzima kakhulu kulabo abanabazali abahle kakhulu. Yize kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala sengathi ukukhetha kusobala. Izingane ziqala ukude. Banombuthano wabo wokuxhumana kanye nezintshisakalo zabo. Ukubonga kubazali kuhle.
Abazali banikela ngokuphila, banikela ngezindlu, banikeze imfundo .... Uhlu lokufaneleka lungaba olungenamkhawulo. Uma abazali bebangelwa yizingane, okunamandla okunamathiselwe, umuzwa womsebenzi nomqondo wokuzibophezela. Izingane zizama ukunxenxa izinzuzo ngesinye isikhathi ngisho nokulimaza impilo yabo kanye nezintshisakalo zabo. Futhi ngaleso sikhathi, izingane ezikhulile, ezingenalo ukunakekelwa kwabazali nothando, zingaba zinkulu, zikhubazekile, zithoswe ngokushesha, zicasulwe. Ukungazinaki izidingo nezifiso zengane kungavusa izingxabano ezingapheli emndenini, kuholele ezinkingeni ezinkulu nasekuziphatheni phansi. Ukususa labo abavelile, bangadinga impilo yonke.
Ngemiphumela emibi yokusilela ukunakwa kungenzeka:
- ukweba;
- unya;
- hysterical;
- ulaka;
- ukudangala.
Lapho ebusuku, lapho ingane inomuzwa ongadingekile, ithambekele ezenzweni ngokushesha futhi azibulale. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuba eduze kwezingane, ukwazi izinkinga zabo, izifiso, izidingo zabo. Ngesikhathi, igama elihle, ukuvalwa kwamathenda, isikhathi esihlanganyelwe - isigaba esibalulekile ekuthuthukisweni nasekwakhekeni kwezingane. Awukwazi ukuphuthelwa kulokhu. Kubalulekile ukuba ube ndawonye nje. Njalo ngonyaka, inyanga, usuku, ihora ... Lesi sikhathi asikwazi ukuboniswa noma sinxephezelwe.
Ngakho-ke, izingane kufanele zibe khona ekuqaleni. Impilo yabo iqala nje futhi incike kuwe ukuthi bazophila kanjani. Kufanele ube eduze nezingane ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuphumula ndawonye, sebenza, funda. Futhi size abazali asebekhulile. Ngoba ukuhlonipha abantu asebekhulile nabazali, kubandakanya, kufanele kubekwe ebuntwaneni. Futhi izifundo ezinhle kakhulu yizifundo zempilo. Khombisa izingane esibonelweni sakho, njengoba kudingeka ukwelapha abantu asebekhulile, abazali asebekhulile. Fundisa izingane ezisencane ukuze zifunde asebekhulile, futhi nentsha ibahlonipho futhi zisiza ogogo nomkhulu. Ukuheha izingane ukunakekela abazali abadala, ungakhokha isikhathi kanti omunye ngasikhathi sinye.
Izingane kufanele azi ukuthi ukuguga isikhathi esinzima kakhulu empilweni, lapho kusondelene, abantu bomdabu babuthakathaka, abakwazi ukuzivikela, bayakwazi ukunakekela, baya esitolo, ekhemisi, bavakashele odokotela. Ubudlelwano obunomusa bungabonakaliswa hhayi kuphela ngosizo lomzimba, yiziphi izingane ezingakwazi ukuba nazo njalo, kodwa futhi namagama afudumele wokusekelwa, ukubamba iqhaza, uthando.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ungayisebenzisi!
Ukuhlinzeka ngokuphila okunethezekile kubazali nokuphila okuhle ezinganeni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kukhona nokuphila komuntu. Akunakwenzeka ukungazinaki izifiso zakho, izintshisekelo nezidingo zakho. Ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukuhambisa abanye amacala ahlobene nokunakekelwa kwabazali asebekhulile ukuvala izihlobo.
Akudingekile ukuthatha zonke izinkathazo ezizungeze indlu, ngaphandle kokushiya abazali bakho, akukho thuba lokuzithatha ngokuthile. Umsebenzi olula, amakilasi alula abanikeza ithuba lokuzizwa unesidingo futhi ulusizo. Abazali bangasiza abazukulu ngezifundo ezithile, benza imisebenzi yezandla noma ngemidwebo. Umsebenzi wakho akufanele uphule phakathi kwezingane nabazali, kodwa ukuze ufunde ukuhlangana naye ngendlela yokuthi yonke into inethezekile. Umndeni omkhulu, onobungane akusona isipho sekusasa, kepha umsebenzi wansuku zonke nemizamo ehlanganyelwe. Uma unabazali abahle kakhulu nezingane ezinhle, akudingeki wenze ukukhetha.