Inkinga eneminyaka ephakathi nendawo isenzima. Azikho ezinye zezinkinga zamaphaphu, zonke ziqeda amandla ngokwanele, zenzeka ezindaweni ezigulayo ezicasulayo. Njengomthetho, inhlekelele ephakathi nendawo yenzeka kwabesifazane ngokuzumayo. Izolo izolo konke kuhamba kahle, wonke umuntu wahlela konke, futhi namuhla impilo ibukeka icisha amakhanda ekhanda! Abaningi ngesizathu esithile bayaqiniseka ukuthi inhlekelele ephakathi nendawo ilele kuphela amadoda. Cha, ngeshwa, akunjalo. Futhi ingxenye yensikazi yabantu nayo ihlushwa lokhu "kokuhlaselwa".
Impilo yempilo minye ingaboniswa kanjani? Uqala ukusondela iminyaka engama-40. Owesifazane futhi obheka nje ngokuthi angama-25, futhi kubonakala sengathi ukufeza impumelelo ethile emikhakheni yomuntu siqu nangobuchwepheshe, kuyabonakala ngokuzumayo ukuthi ulahlekelwe okuthile. Cha, futhi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, konke kusendaweni, kepha ngakolunye - kepha kutholakala okuncane, futhi kungekudala nje! Ukwesaba, ukwethuka, ukudideka! Owesifazane uqala ukubheka izimpawu zokusondela kokuguga ... thile indawo yokugqwayiza, endaweni ethile ikhilogremu eyengeziwe ... Ngokuvamile, uyakujabulela lokho okubukeka ngayo, kusukela kuvela kuye Izimpukane, awufuni ukuyithatha futhi ujwayelane naye! Okwakunentshisekelo izolo izolo, namuhla kungacasula futhi kungalethi injabulo enjalo.
Sibheke ngapha nangapha siqhathanisa nakanjani ontanga futhi uzuzwe. Imvamisa kuqala ukubonakala sengathi konke okuhle, okumnandi sekuvele ngemuva, bese kuguga kuphela, ukungabaza, izinkinga ...
Uma owesifazane enempilo elungile, kusemqondweni okokuqala kwesimo sohlelo lwe-endocrine, inhlekelele ihamba kahle. Ukuba khona kwanoma yiziphi izinkinga ngalesi sikhala kungahlanganisa inkambo yesikhathi sobunzima. Lokhu akulona umvuthwandaba, ngokwesibonelo, ngendlala yegilo, kwandisa imizwa nemizwa ...
O, le mizwa!Uma izingane sezivele zikhulile, lona wesifazane ubhekene nenye inkinga: Lapho udinga ukuyeka indodana noma indodakazi yami nenkululeko. Futhi akuhlali kwenzeka ngaphandle kwesithandwa. Ukuphepha ngendlela yokuzilibazisa komuntu siqu yilokho okusindisa ukudangala kuleli cala hhayi kuphela.
Ukugxila emndenini owodwa kuphela, njengomthetho, kuveza lezimanga ezingezinhle. Izingane zakudala ziqala izimpilo zazo, futhi umama akazi ukuthi ngenzeni ngokulandelayo kunokuzithatha. Endabeni lapho izingane zisencane, inhlekelele eneminyaka ephakathi nendawo ingaqhubeka kubuhlungu kangako. Yize kunjalo, kukhona ukuvuselela okuqhubekayo, ukuze uzigcine ezandleni zakhe. Vele, akekho umuntu ozonikeza u-100% uqinisekisa ukuthi le nketho izosebenza. Kodwa-ke, izingane ezincane, njengomthetho, ziholele kowesifazane ovela emicabangweni nasemimonweni ecindezelayo.
Le nhlekelele ithinta ubuhlobo noshade naye. Uma konke kungekuhle kangako, ukuqhuma kungenzeka noma kwenzeke okuthile okunjalo. Musa ukucisha ihlombe lakho! Musa ukujaha ukushintsha yonke into, shiya, ikhefu. Linda okuncane, uqaphele, uqoke okucasulayo engingakuthandi, akuvumelani futhi ngicabange ukukulungisa, ukuthuthukisa, ukuvuselela kabusha ...
Likuphi ukusindiswa futhi kunjalo?
Vele ube! Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuzama ukuzithoba iqiniso lokuthi abantu abaningi badlula enkingeni ephakathi nendawo. Lokhu akuyona inhlekelele, yize ingakhululeki. Thola empilweni yakho okukwenza ujabule, okukulethela umuzwa wokwaneliseka: izingane, umsebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ukuhamba nokunye. Ake ngiqiniseke ukuthi unakho okungokwakho! Uma kungekho okunjalo, ukuthola lokho!
Bheka ngaphakathi kuwe. Vumela ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze ube lula, ake ujabule, ahlekise, ahlekise, ahlekisayo ... okungenani isigamu sehora nehora ngesonto. Uma uphuthelwe okuthile, qiniseka ukuthi unentshisekelo emnandi ngesimo samakilasi aletha imizwa emihle, ukuphumula, ukuphumula kanye ne-buzz.
Zama ukucabanga ngokuhle, ungavuki, ungalahli injabulo yokuba.