Njengoba wazi, i-empheleleni engenela i-mulpove yabona umhlaba ngendlela ehlukile, uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye. Banekhono elingaphakathi lokuzwa imizwa yabanye abantu, cishe njengabo. Lokhu kuyabavumela ukuba bathande ngayo yonke imiphefumulo, ukulola ukungabi nabulungisa, kanye nokudambisa abanye ekuhlushweni ngokomzwelo. Kepha ngenxa yezinzwa zabo zokuzalwa zobubele nokunakekelwa, i-eParth ivame ukusetshenziswa ezintshisakalweni zabo. Ngakho-ke, izinkinga ezingokomzwelo ezi-8 zokuthi yonke i-epiphat-introvert izobhekana nazo ngezikhathi ezithile.
1. Kwesinye isikhathi kunzima ngabo ukukhuluma
Ukuze uthole imiphefumulo, izinkathi ezinde zesizungu nokucwiliswa kungathinta amandla abo okuveza imicabango yabo ngokucacile njengoba bethanda. "Izingxoxo ezincane" ezincane "ezingezinhle" azisho lutho "- ngokusobala hhayi izigaxa zazo.2. Bangesaba kalula
I-emgnolod i-emcurpath ivame ukuzwa ubunzima ukuze ihlunge noma icindezele imizwa yabanye, futhi kube lula ukususa umsindo omkhulu kusuka ekulinganiseni noma i-nomsindo yenhlalo enomsindo. Futhi uma uhlanganisa lezi zinto ezimbili ndawonye, akumangazi ukuthi uzwela lungaphansi kokuhlaselwa ukwethuka, futhi ngezikhathi ezithile zibhekana namagagasi emizwa edlula kunzima ukulawula.
3. Baqonda imizwa yabanye, kepha ngokuvamile abaqondi abo
Imvamisa, kungenzeka ukuthi abantu abanjalo bazi ukuthi ngubani othandana nomngane wabo, kepha ngokuphelele abaqondi ukuthi umuntu uyabathanda. Ungayifunda imizwa yabanye abantu ngokumane, kepha ukuthola isiyaluyalu sethu sangaphakathi esiyinkimbinkimbi kungaba nzima kakhulu epaththo elivaliwe. Kubo, isici somuntu esinjalo njengokuzazi kokuzibonela kungahle kube nzima kakhulu kunabantu abaningi. Bazizwa futhi baqonda kakhulu ukuthi ukuhlukanisa imizwa yabo emizweni yabanye kungaba ngumsebenzi onzima, noma ngabe kunesidingo.4. Kunzima ukuvumela abanye ezimpilweni zabo.
I-paththa ethambekele futhi enakekela abanye, bangabangane abamangazayo nabathandi abanothando. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yokuzwela okuphezulu, besaba ukuvumela abanye abantu ezimpilweni zabo.
Bakhathala kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngothando, futhi bahluleka ukuwela othandweni "kanjalo nje" ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi bangahlupheka.
5. Bakhanga abantu abangazi lutho
Enye yezici ezizondwa kakhulu ze-Introvert-Empath yekhono labo elingazi lutho ukuheha abantu ababi. Zingaba "Magnets" zangempela zokunganaki ngenxa yekhono elinamandla lokuqonda imibono nemizwa yabanye abantu.Kungakho abantu abangalungile bavame ukuthanda ukuzibopha kubo futhi bajabulele umlingiswa wabo omuhle.
6. Basengozini yokuncika.
Ngenxa yokuzwela okuphezulu emizweni nasemandleni abunye abantu, imiz: Unhlonipho olwenziwe ngaphakathi kuthambekele kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokuncika. Imvamisa baphendukela ezidakamizweni, impilo yezocansi engahleliwe noma utshwala, ukuvimba imizwa abazizwa ngayo kwabanye.
Ukuncika kusebenza njengokuzivikela okungokomzwelo okuyingqayizivele kokuzivikela emizweni nasemandleni angaphandle.
7. Bathambekele ekucindezelekeni kwezimomo.
Yize i-empath ebekiwe iyakwazi ukufihla imizwa yayo yangempela, nayo ingaphansi kwemizwa yehla. Lapho bedonsa izinga eliphakeme lamandla amabi, bangaba bangathandeki, bathule futhi bajabule kakhulu.8. Bafuna, kepha bavame ukungabongi
Lapho unaka lokho abantu abakushoyo, abakhathalela ngokweqiniso futhi bambalwa abanesifiso sokuba yisizinda sokunakwa, abantu nezinkinga zabo ziphuthunyiswe engozini. Akukhathalekile nokuthi ngabe abantu bacishe bazi i-shadop, kodwa okuthile okuphoqa abantu ukuveza imiphefumulo yabo kuye. Futhi akumangazi ukuthi lokhu kuyenzeka uma ubona ukuthi i-Emat ikwazi kanjani ukuqonda abanye.
Imiphefumulo inaka kakhulu ngenhlala-kahle yabanye abantu, ngakho-ke bakwazi ukulalela buthule ukuthi abantu bafunga kanjani ezintweni ezifanayo. Noma kunjalo. Imiphefumulo idinga ukwazi ubudlelwano obunjalo obuhlangene lapho ibanikeza bonke futhi ingatholi lutho olufana nalokho.