Noma yimuphi umbhangqwana ungashesha noma sekwedlule isikhathi. Okuqale njengenoveli enesivunguvungu nenothando kungakhula kube yingxube yenzondo yenzondo. Lokhu kungagwenywa uma unezimpawu eziyingozi ngesikhathi futhi uzame ukuwaqeda. Eqinisweni, kunezikhathi eziningi ezibucayi, futhi zihlukile kumbhangqwana ngamunye. Siqoqe kuphela izimo ezijwayelekile kakhulu.
Wayeka ukuxhumana.
Kancane kancane, izihloko ezindala zezingxoxo zaqedwa, futhi okusha akuzange kuveli. Futhi yini engingakhuluma ngayo, uma ngakho konke sekuhlelekile? "Pheleleke isobho" - Hhayi-ke, yini okufanele uxoxe ngayo, ikakhulukazi ngoba kungazelelwe ukucasulwa futhi kuzohlela ihlazo? Ngenxa yalokho, ukuthula okunentofontofo okuzoholela ekuqhumeni.
Imizwa Ecindezelekile.
Amaphupho, amapulani, imibono, ukufutheka okungenamsolo, ukuzwela okuzwakalayo - konke lokhu kwase ekuqaleni kobuhlobo bakho, bese kuthi bobabili bajwayela ukuvala amehlo akho futhi uhumushele ingxoxo esiteshini esifuywayo - "futhi hhayi "Isibonelo. Maye, ukugwema izihloko ezibukhali ungalahlekelwa kalula into esemqoka. Uyazibuza ukuthi amaphupho akho amaphupho amangaki? Uyazi kahle?
Awunalutho olufanayo.
Kungazelelwe kuvela ukuthi awunazintshisekelo ezijwayelekile. Kube bonke. Futhi alikho iphupho elijwayelekile. Futhi ngokujwayelekile akucaci okusobala ukuthi wenze isikhathi esiningi ndawonye. Awuzange izicathulo zesikhumba?
Usayizi we-ego ngendlu.
Lapho uxabana, ngamunye wakho uqinisile, u- £ 146%. Ngokwezinga elinjalo ukuthi akucaci ukuthi lesi sihlakala (lesi sididikazi) singakuphikisa yini. Futhi akekho noyedwa ongasoze waphamba. Ngoba ngingalilahla kanjani i-idiot (idiot?)
Omunye umuntu.
Akukhona ngisho naku-TROVER, kodwa kungamane kuphumelele ukuthi uzakwabo emsebenzini, noma umngane wakudala, noma intombi - uyazi ngempilo yakho ehliswe kakhulu. Yebo, ngoba lapho kanye nezintshisakalo ezijwayelekile, futhi uyaqondana ungcono kakhulu. Ungasho kanjani abahlaziyi bebhola - "Isikhathi Esiyingozi!" Ngoba empeleni zonke izindaba ezisondelene, ukungabaza nobunzima kufanele nixoxe nabanye, hhayi nabangane, abangane kanye nozakwabo.
Ukuntuleka kokuqala.
Ngenkathi bobabili abalingani bezama ukusungula okuthile - izipho ezingalindelekile, isidlo sasemini esisheshayo, isidlo sothando esinothando olunamakhandlela ngaphandle kwesizathu, ubulili obungalindele lapha nakanje - konke kuhamba kahle. Lapho isinyathelo sinyamalala (noma sijeziswa, kuyenzeka futhi) - kukhona okungahambanga kahle.
-Qondene.
Into embi kakhulu engenzeka phakathi kwesithandwa izama njalo ukugwema ukuxabana. Ukuzama ukuxazulula njalo icala lomhlaba lapho ungaxabana ngokuhlupha, bese kuba mnandi ukubuyisana kabusha - iphutha elikhulu. Enye into ukuthi ukufunga unomphela ngokwezizathu ezifanayo zobusono lapho bobabili amaqembu ekhumbula zonke izono kusukela ngosuku lokuqala nakwidolo lesikhombisa - futhi liphikisana.
Ukuntuleka kwesikhathi.
Yebo, wonke umuntu unomsebenzi omningi. Yebo, kwesinye isikhathi kungaba kuhle ukuhlangana nabangane. Yebo, izingane zihlala cishe sonke isikhathi samahhala. Ekuqaleni kuthathwa njengokudabukisayo, futhi ukuhlala ndawonye, abantu bavukelana. Kepha bese ujwayela. Ekugcineni, akukho lutho olubi kangangokuba kwagcina lapho sichitha isikhathi sindawonye kuphela ngesikhathi sokuthandana. Futhi-ke ungacabanga ngokuzumayo: Kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi sihlala ndawonye?
Kancane kancane ukukhulisa ubutha.
Kukhona nemikhuba emibi, ukukhungatheka, kanye nezinkinga zakudala ezinomhlaba akhule zibe zingethuki, kanye nokuzenzela ukukhuluma. Futhi lapha, cishe, akukho lutho oluzokwenza noma yini.
Akukho ucansi.
Namuhla unekhanda. Kusasa waphuza kakhulu. Ngosuku olulandelayo kusasa bakhathele bobabili. Ngosuku olulandelayo babe nezivakashi ezaze sekwephuze kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokhu, uhlu lwamahlaya luvela e-Excel - wonke amacala lapho ubulili bungenzeka khona, kepha bekungenjalo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ujwayela isimo esinjalo. Ekugcineni, ukuthi lobu bulili bukhetheke kangaka? Futhi siphila ngaphandle kwawo! Futhi empeleni cha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumnandi, ngamandla futhi kuyadingeka, kuyindlela ebaluleke kunazo zonke yokuxhumana, kanye nokuzethemba kwangempela, kanye nengxoxo, futhi ngokujwayelekile, kanye nolunye lwezizathu ezimbalwa ezenza ukuthi abantu bahlale bodwa. Ngeke kube khona ubulili - akukho okuzokwenzeka. Ngakho-ke, ngokwesisekelo, lolu hlu alubi kabi kangako. Kuyadingeka nje 1) ukuthola isikhathi, 2) Khuluma, 3) ukuxabana nokwenza u-4) wakhwela embhedeni. Akunandaba, inyanga uhlala ndawonye noma amashumi amabili.
