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Ukuntshuka
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Ngikufisela inhlanhla
Lapho ebhekele isisebenzi esibhekele ngokwengeziwe, okuyithuba lokuthi azogqekeza esiqongweni sepensela. Uma uyifunda emsebenzini, susa ngokushesha ipensela emlonyeni - kungazelelwe umqashi uyakwazi nalolu cwaningo.Ukuvula okusha
Izihlakaniphi nabantu, abangenalo ogwini nobandlululo, bavame ukunyakaziswa endlini kulokho umama abeletha khona nogongolo. Lokhu kuchaziwe ngandlela thile, kepha kungani kunjalo, ngokusho kocwaningo, kaningi kakhulu kunabanye abadla into ebukhali futhi ngaphansi kaningi kubo bonke abanye bagula ngohlobo oluthile lweqembu? Izimfihlo ze-psychology.