Umlobi walo mbhalo ukholelwa ukuthi umfazi kufanele futhi anake umyeni wakhe. Futhi uma engakwenzi lokhu - lokhu kuzokwenza enye. Siyenqaba ukuba nesibopho salezi zinhlamvu futhi ngokuvamile sikholelwa ukuthi ukuvukela umbuso okushadile akukuhle.
Kodwa-ke, izibonakaliso nezimo ezichaziwe zazibonakala zinelukuluku. Sishicilela ngaphandle kwemali.
Akalaleli
Uza ekhaya uqale ukukhuluma nomkami, belunjani usuku lwakho. Inhloko yesiwula, kanye nozakwabo - ama-freaks angafanele. Ngemuva komsebenzi, wagijimela emgwaqweni nofunda naye ekilasini, engabonanga iminyaka engamashumi amabili, wazala, washada wavula isiqalo eSyolkovo. Noma uzama ukuchaza ukwakhiwa kwesitofu sakwa-Homemade Tourias owaqhamuka naye ngokwakhe ukuthwala nawe ukudoba. Futhi kungazelelwe ubona ukuthi uyavuma futhi anikele ezindaweni zokuphikisana, okuthile okuphawula ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Esimweni esibi kakhulu, ekutshela ukuthi uvuleke umbhalo ovulekile: "Kungani ungitshela lo kati kadoti?". Awunandaba naye. Kepha akulutho: empeleni awuyena umfana olula, unokuthile ongakutshela. Futhi ngokuqinisekile uzothola intombazane ezoba nentshisekelo. Yebo, ngoba abantu bavame ukuthakazelisa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi amadoda.
Uphethe okungenangqondo
Uqala njalo ukukutshela noma yini. Into osuvele uzwe izikhathi ezingamashumi amane. Wahamba kanjani ehamba ngezinyawo esikoleni esiphakeme. Njengoba ayethukile edakiwe eneminyaka eyi-15 (futhi kusukela lapho aphuza ngokulinganisela kakhulu, ngokungafani nawe). Njengoba umama wakhe ajezisa iminyaka eyi-10 ngenxa yobudlova. Lapho ehlanganyela ebuntwaneni begibela ukugibela, nayo yonke imininingwane kuze kube yimininingwane yezidlaliso. Cha, amahlandla ambalwa okuqala kwakumnandi futhi kuyathakazelisa. Kepha, ngokusobala, kusukela ngaleso sikhathi into entsha empilweni yakhe yenzekile. Futhi uma ngenxa yesizathu esithile kungenzeki ukuhlukanisa nowesifazane, izimpilo zawo azinakwenzeka, akukufanele ukulalela okunye?
Ungadumisi
Akunandaba ukuthi wenzani: Hambisa ishelufu, upheke isidlo sakusihlwa, bhala inoveli, cwilisa ikhilogremu engeziwe noma uze nje ekhaya - konke kuhamba ngaphandle kokudumiswa, ukuze kuvunyelwe ngaphandle kokudumisa. Uyini, okuncane okukushayayo ekhanda? Yebo, kunjalo, empeleni, lesi ngesinye sezidingo ezibaluleke kakhulu zendoda - ukuze adunyiswe ukuncoma. Futhi uma lokhu kungenzeki ekhaya, ungavele uthole omunye umuntu wesifazane ozokhuluma njalo: "Ungcono kakhulu." Ubuwula, mhlawumbe, kepha busebenza ngaphandle kwezinkinga.
-Banjwe umsebenzi
Wayeka ngokuzumayo ukuba aqonde isikhathi nakuwe, nasekhaya, nakho konke okunye. Izinto eziqinile ezibaluleke kakhulu: Ubhala amazwana ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, okubi kothile kwi-Intanethi. Noma udlala umdlalo wekhompyutha. Noma ulwele ukusinda kwezitshalo zasendlini exotic. Futhi yingakho kungalungisi, akayenzi ucansi, ukhohlwa ukuphumelela futhi asakaze ama-buns asakazeke, lapho ama-fattests. Futhi ngasizathu simbe uzakudinga umfazi, hhayi hhayi i-agronom noma umshayeli we-lagg-3 fighter.
Mama eduze
Empilweni yakho kwaba njalo, kuningi umama wakhe. Umama weza ukubhukuda wahlala. Umama wahamba wayohlala nengane - ngakho-ke nsuku zonke. Udla umama njalo ngempelasonto. Umama (ngokuzithandela, ngendlela, umama; umngani wakho wakuthandayo ekhaya, umyeni wakhe wangaphambili, umphathi emsebenzini noma impande yamafutha angathatha indawo eminingi yokushada) nawe njalo! Lapha, ngendlela enhle, udinga nje ukugijima, kepha uma kungenzeka kungenzeki, kukhona indlela yokuphuma. Encwadini yakho: Cishe akunathuba lokuthi inkosikazi izokungenisa umama.
Ayigqoke kahle
Uza ekhaya, futhi uyahamba nje - hlangana, ake sithi nezintombi. Futhi ngokuzumayo uyibone kupendiwe, ngesiketi esifushane esiqinile, esinamadolo amahle anqunu. Futhi iya emsebenzini emabhulukweni naseThongs ukuze ama-saims ama-panties angaveli. Onephunga, uhlanganiswe futhi wabekwa. Ugcine nini ukumbona ekhaya? Ugqoka umhlaba wangaphandle, kozakwabo, wezintombi, zabahambi abangahleliwe esitimeleni, mhlawumbe ngisho nesithandwa. Futhi ekhaya liya kuma-Workouts athukile, ekudleni okubi kakhulu, ehembe lakudala elinwetshiwe lemvelaphi engacacile. Ebusika, akaphuce imilenze yakhe, ngoba azama ngayo? Kwakho? Kuhle kakhulu! Omunye owesifazane makazame ukukulungiselela, okuzolungiselela ukufika kwakho, ukukhipha okuhlukile, uFrank the Perfeve Perfume futhi ugqoke izingubo zangaphansi ezinhle.
Musa ukondla
Ingabe udle isonto elikhulu eliyisisekelo? Okokugcina umfazi wakufanelekela izivivinyo eziphumelelayo ze-Culiment ngaphambi komshado? Isiqandisi sivalwe ngamadombolo? Isidlo sasekuseni esishisayo ugcine ukubonwa eholidini, ehhotela "konke okubandakanya"? Ngakho-ke ngeke kuhambe. Ukudla okumnandi kuhlotshaniswa nocansi nangokwejwayelekile ngentokozo yabesilisa ngqo. Uma engakondleki, wondla omunye, uselula kakhulu.
Ukunganaki ucansi
Ulenze nini okokugcina? Emasontweni amabili edlule? Unyaka omusha kaningi? Unekhanda? Wayekhathele? Unomsebenzi omningi? Kufanele ngivuke ekuseni kusasa? Hhayi esimweni? Nencazelo? Hhayi ukuthi amaphutha angakaze asho njalo, kepha kunethuba elincane kakhulu ngalo.
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