Ukuvela kwengane encane endlini kungaguqula yonke into ivela emilenzeni. Futhi abazali akudingeki kube lula, ikakhulukazi uma lokhu kuyingane yokuqala. Lezi zeluleko zizosiza abazali abasebasha ukuba basinde ngenyanga yokuqala nosanda kuzalwa, ungahlali uhlanya futhi ugcine impilo yengane yabo.
1 Ukuphakelwa kwengane kaningi
Ubisi olondla ingane ukuphela kokudla kwakhe. Kuzosiza nokuthi umama ahlakulele ukuxhumana nengane yakhe. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi unake isikhathi lapho ngigcina lapho ngisondla khona ingane yami - kudingeka ngizale cishe amahlandla ayisithupha ngosuku. Kungenzeka ukwandisa isikhathi sokudla kwengane ngokuya ngezidingo zayo, kepha ungazami ngisho nokulawula ukondla isikhathi noma uhlelo (izidingo zengane ngokuyinhloko). Futhi ekugcineni, akunakwenzeka ukondla ingane yanyanga zonke eshaye ngayo, udinga ukusebenzisa i- "Right", udokotela azokweluleka.2 Ungakhohlwa imithetho yokuphepha
Ezokuphepha kumele zibe nge-paramoous yakho kukho konke okuhlobene nengane. Ingane eneminyaka eyinyanga eyodwa ayazi okuhle nokuthi yini engeyona. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukuqaphela kakhulu ingane nazo zonke izinto ezizungezile. Ungalokothi ushiye izinto ezibukhali noma ezisindayo eduze kwengane, futhi uqiniseke nokuthi azikho amathoyizi azungeze ingane lapho elele. Lapho ingane ilala noma ilele embhedeni, udinga ukuyibeka ngemicamelo ukuqeda ngisho namathuba amancane angakwazi ukuhlupheka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane, kudingeka uhlole lonke indlu.
3 Hlangana nengane
Ukondla ngaso sonke isikhathi kwakha ukuxhumana nengane. Kukhona ezinye izindlela ezingasiza ekwakheni ukuxhumana nengane. Lapho ingane ivuka, umbono omuhle uzozama ukudlala okuncane noma ukuxoxa naye. Lokhu kuzosiza ukufunda ingane yakho kangcono futhi kusheshe ukuze uqonde kangcono izidingo zawo. Ukuze uhlanganyele kangcono nengane, ungathenga amathoyizi anemibala noma anomsindo.4 Qonda ukuthi ingane ilala kanjani
Kusukela ngenyanga yokuqala, udinga ukulandela ngokucophelela isikhathi lapho ingane ikhetha ukulala khona. Udinga ngaso sonke isikhathi ukunikeza ingane ukuthi iphume uma inethezekile. Udinga futhi ukondla osanda kuzalwa ngokuhambisana nomjikelezo wobuthongo bakhe. Njalo njalo futhi ubheka ingane njalo, noma ngabe konke kuhamba kahle kuye lapho elele.
5 ahlinzeke ngenhlanzeko enhle
Kuyadingeka ukuvikela ingane yakho ekuxhumaneni nanoma yikuphi ukutheleleka noma amagciwane. Ukungavikeleki kosanda kuzalwa kukhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, okwenza kube sengozini enkulu yezifo. Akunakukwazi ukuphuthelwa noma yikuphi ukugoma, noma ukuvakashela udokotela. Udinga futhi ukugeza kahle izandla zakho ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho uthatha ingane ezandleni zakho noma uyithinte, futhi ugcine izingubo zengane yakho zihlanzekile futhi zihlelekile.