UDaria Holchepova uyaqhubeka nokuvula iqiniso ngowesifazane nawesilisa. Kulokhu sizokhuluma ngenkohliso enkulu neyesikhathi eside esesiphulukisa, abesifazane, imali enkulu. Ekwahlukanisweni kwezimpahla ophawu lobulili.
Uma uthola amaphuzu ku-Google Photos "izimpahla zamadoda angempela", ungathola ukuthi yini elahleka kangako nabesilisa bangempela. Okokuqala, isibindi abasonakele. Uhlu lubonisa izibhamu, imimese, izibhamu nezinye izindlela zokuzivikela. Okwesibili, bahlala bebanda kakhulu, ngakho-ke into elandelayo iyi-jacket efudumele kakhulu yamadoda angempela. Futhi ekugcineni, kukhona izibani (kahle, ubumnyama buyinto embi), ama-T-shirts aneziwula ezinjengebhere elikhulayo (lapha ubumnyama bokuqashwa buzoba buthaka), ama-wallets, amawashi notshwala.
Abesifazane, ngokusobala, abamesabi lutho, ngeke baqandwe, bayabona ebumnyameni futhi abadingi imali, iwashi notshwala. Ngakho-ke, izithende kuphela, amakha, ukugqoka kanye "namajakethi" wobusika "we-ultrasound awela esigabeni esithi" izimpahla zabesifazane bangempela ".
Ngokusobala, ukuhlukaniswa kwezimpahla kubantwana kungenxa yokuthi abathengisi badinga ukuthengisa okuthile. Ngokuvamile, iningi lezinto ezihlekisayo emakethe livele ngenxa yokuthi abathengisi badinga ukuthengisa okuthile ...
Yebo, i-chic is, kunjalo, ithatha izinto ezifanayo futhi ifayilile njengehlukile.
Lapha, ngokwesibonelo, imishini ye-razor. Kubonwa ngokushesha ukuthi umshini weBlue Blue yakhelwe kuphela amadoda (anamabala amabili ajwayelekile kanye nomucu owodwa othambisayo). Unesibindi, ngesibindi futhi ngaphandle komkhondo uzosusa izinwele! Ngalo mshini we-razor, noma yimuphi umuntu ufana ne-samurai ekhethwe kahle nge-roller. Kanye nomshini wensizwa wabesifazane (amabala amabili ajwayelekile kanye nomucu owodwa othambisayo), ngokucophelela futhi asuse ngokucophelela "izinwele ezengeziwe". Ngalo mshini we-razor, noma yimuphi umfazi yi-mermaid ebushelelezi (ama-mermaids awahambisani nemilenze, yebo?) Ngaphandle kwemibala, akukho mehluko kule mikhakha emibili. Kodwa-ke, owesilisa ushibhile.
Le ndaba ehlukile - impela, cishe yonke imikhiqizo - kusuka ezingubeni kuya kwezimonyo, kubiza amadoda ashibhile. Lokhu kufakazela izifundo ezimbalwa, kufaka phakathi lezo eziphethwe yi-University of Central Florida. (Landela izixhumanisi, uma ungakholelwa igama: kanye, ezimbili).
Hhayi nje kuphela ukuthi abesifazane bedlula imikhiqizo efanayo, ukukhangisa kubeka amamodeli wokuziphatha kwabathengi futhi kukhombisa ukuthi ungaphila kanjani kahle. Isibonelo esicacile kakhulu ukudla. Imikhiqizo ewusizo engu-10 "ewusizo kakhulu yamadoda" ifaka:
Izinhlanzi, amantongomane, inyama yenkomo, ubisi, ushizi we-beer cottage shizi nokunye ...
Esiqongweni semikhiqizo yabesifazane, hhayi noma yimiphi imikhiqizo lapho, kepha ewusizo, efanelekile yomzimba, yile:
Izaqathe, iklabishi, i-Flaxseed, Amanzi (Iwusizo kakhulu ukuphuza amanzi, ku-IT zero amakhalori!), Ama-beet, ama-oatmeal, izinsuku nokunye ukulangazelela
Ukumaketha kuncoma abesifazane ukuthi bavikele.
Pink vs luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka
Isandla esingabonakali semakethe esihlaselwe ngemuva kwekhanda nango-2007-2008 izincwadi eziningi zavela, ezazisa ngokwesayensi uthando lwabesifazane nombala opinki. (Ngokwesibonelo).
Incazelo ethi "Scienceficain" yinhle kubo bonke. Ngakho-ke, kudala, esikhathini esikade, emthaleni olukude, abesifazane abahamba ngomhume bagijimela emhlabeni futhi baqoqa i-strawberry yokuqala. Noma okusajingijolo! Noma ama-apula. Ngokuvamile, ama-geatheds ahlanganyela. Futhi ngakho-ke bayithanda imibala yezithelo ezivuthiwe, okuyiminyaka eyizinkulungwane eziyikhulu abesifazane abadala, engacabangi, ihlanza le-Pink Vacuum, imoto noma ijazi. Nalu uthando lwemvelo ngombala opinki.
Futhi amadoda, kusho, afana, aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ngoba lolu umbala wesibhakabhaka esingenamafu. Ngenkathi abesifazane abacucu befuna, amadoda aphezulu, kusho ukuthi bavame ukushiswa yilanga kanye nalesi simo sezethulo, noma yini edwetshwe ngopinki - baphenduka abesifazane "abakhethekile" kwabesifazane.
Imakethe imibala ehlukene kuphela esesandleni: amandla okuthola izimpahla eziningi zokungathathi hlangothi kobulili, uzinikezela nge- "feminin".
Lapha, ngokwesibonelo, isando sowesifazane kuphela. Uzothola amaphuzu ngobumnene.
Noma njengoba unezindlebe ezikhethekile zombala wepinki kakhulu. Mhlawumbe, ngeke banyamalele izindlebe zesifazane ngemisindo engemnandi. Futhi emadodeni ngeke asebenze.
Futhi ekugcineni, iphilisi lokulala insikazi lizobuya (kwabesifazane kuphela!) Iphupho elizolile ukuze wenze kwisando sakho esipinki.
Futhi-ke, noma yimuphi umthengi osesitolo sezinto zezingane enakwayo (nokuthi angaphenduli kanjani!) E-Hell's Pink for Girls - kusuka ezingutsheni kuya kumathoyizi. Lo Marking uzuzisa futhi kubakhiqizi: Ngemuva kwakho konke, emndenini, lapho izingane eziningana ezahlukene, umfowethu omncane akekho ohlangana naye e-Fit Down Jacket yodadewabo kaFuchsia. Iya uthenge okusha, njengomuhle! Ngemuva kwakho konke, umbala "uDevotk".
Yebo, futhi isimo egumbini lezingane kuzodingeka sishintshe, abafana bathanda kuphela okwesibhakabhaka, abakwazi ukuba neminye imibala!
Izipho zabesifazane
Ngenxa yesethi yama-stereotypes, okuyindlela ekhangayo, kukhona okucasulayo kwabesifazane nezinto ezihlekisayo. Ngakho-ke, ngokwesibonelo, kubukeka njengesethi yezipho zezincwadi, ezizothakazelisa abesifazane kanye nesethi yezincwadi zamadoda.
Ngokusobala, izinganekwane zobuhle, ukudla, impilo yomndeni iyikhishi elisha elithi "Ikhishi, izingane, isonto." Futhi amadoda athakazelisa ngokwengeziwe: ukuthuthukiswa kwenkumbulo lapho, ikusasa lesizathu, umlando womhlaba ... Ayikho indlela yokumnika umhlahlandlela njengezindlela eziyi-150 zokunciphisa isilevu, iqoqo elisebenzayo le- "Ikhishi zabantu bomhlaba "kanye" nokuthuthukiswa kwenkumbulo: Ungakwenza kanjani konke okuthenjisiwe. "
Ngemuva kokuthi isikhangiso siphindwe izikhathi eziyisigidi ukuthi abesifazane 'banezinwele ezimnene', "isikhumba sidinga ukunakekelwa ngokucophelela", i-gearbox "emotweni" yabesifazane "kufanele ibe nguNkulunkulu olungile, hhayi okokwenza ama-blondes futhi Umbala we-rose pink kusuka ezikhathini zangaphambi kwama-previeric, amadoda amaningi, nabesifazane sebevele kunzima ukukholelwa ukuthi kwenzekani ngenye indlela. Ukuthi abesifazane futhi badinga amakhalori abangawathanda wonke amathunzi aluhlaza futhi athola isipikili ngesando nje, hhayi apinki ekhethekile ngobunono. Nezindlebe zabesifazane besakhiwo esivame kakhulu, somuntu.
P.S. By the way, ubuso bakwamadoda ubuso buhle ngemilenze yabesifazane, kepha bushibhile kunabesifazane!