Umkhuba wokubumba ngaphansi kwempumulo awusilo uphawu lokuthi ungumuntu onama-quirks. Kuyasiza kuzo zonke izinhlangothi. Ososayensi baqinisekisa ukuthi izingxoxo ngokwazo ...
Siza Ukwakheka Kwemininingwane Futhi Yehlise Ukuxineka
Eyunivesithi, iWisconsin-Madison yaqhuba isivivinyo: amavolontiya aphoqelelwa ukuthi afune izinto ezilahlekile. Kuleli qembu, lavunyelwa ukuba lithuke ngaphansi kwempumulo "Ingagibela kuphi? Ngaphansi kosofa wabheka, ngaphansi kwetafula, futhi, "kanti owesibili utuse ukugcina umlomo enqabeni. Futhi labo abaxoxa nabo, hhayi nje ukuthi balahlekelwe ngokushesha - ngemuva kokuhlolwa, isimo sasingcono, kanye ne-pulse - ngisho nangaphezulu.Senze ngokucophelela
Into efana nale psychologists kaGary LUPED noDaniel Svigley, lapho benikelwa ukukhumbula uhlu lokuthengwa kwesuphamakethe. Abanye babo bebengabuka kuphela uhlu, kanti abanye babo - bezwakala kakhulu ukukhuluma amagama omkhiqizo. Labo ababekhuluma nabo, ngakho-ke babathola ngokushesha emashalofini futhi baphuthelwa yizikhundla ezimbalwa.
Thuthukisa inkumbulo
Lapho sikhuluma nabo, inkumbulo yokuthinta iyasebenza. Unamandla amancane, kepha kusinika ithuba lokubona ngeso lengqondo incazelo yeZwi, futhi kuzokhunjulwa kangcono. Icebo lokufundisa lisuselwa kule nto lapho abafundi befunda olunye ulimi kufanele baphinde amagama amasha nokuhumusha kwabo.Nikeza ukukhishwa okungokomzwelo
Lapho wonke umuntu enesibindi, ungangena buthule ekhoneni lokuhlupheka, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi usho ngokuzwakalayo futhi ulisho kahle "% # & !!! - Futhi manje sekube lula.
Cacisa ubuchopho
Into eyodwa ukukhuluma nami buthule, enye into ukufihla ukufakwa nemiyalo. "Ngakho-ke, uMasha, wehlise umoya futhi ucabange ukuthi ungenza lapha." Lapho ukhuluma nawe, awusisho nje kuphela - uyalizwa. Futhi amagama abonakala njengezeluleko ezinhle ezingalandelwa.
Phatha ukulimala okudala kwengqondo
Ngoba leli zwi langaphakathi liyingxenye yethu kuphela, kepha iningi labazali. Uma umama nobaba wonke ubuntwana ubizwa ngokuthi weluleke futhi wayi-ballad, uzokhuluma nawe "kahle, yini engingalahlekelwa okhiye!". Uma abazali bekwakheka ngokwengeziwe, uzofaka uhlu khona lapho usuvele ulufuna khona futhi kufanele usesheke.
Umzali womzali angadonswa uma evunyelwe ukukhuluma ngokuzimela - hhayi ukuphinda umkhuba we-knuckle owuzwe ekhelini lakho ebuntwaneni, kodwa ukukhuluma ngezwi lakho. Futhi uzidumise ngokubona lapho kutholakala okhiye.