Enye yezifundo ze-Intanethi ze-Intanethi ze-Intanethi ze-Intanethi ezifakiwe "Okubi kakhulu emhlabeni emhlabeni ziye esikoleni ukuze zidle lapho wonke umuntu." Ngemuva kwemiyalo ekujuleni kwe-neetachesess, abamele izinsizakusebenza baqala ukufakazela ukuthi lokhu akuyona inhlekisa, kodwa isitatimende esinobungane, futhi ngoba asifuni ukucasula noma ngubani, - Akukho lutho olucasulayo lapha.
Yini okubi ku- "subtoding enobungane"? Kungani ungazihleki? Isincomo esithi "Vuka Wena" uvame ukuzwa labo ababa yizisulu ze-FATfobic, Lukist, Misobine, Earboast kanye nezinye amahlaya abandlululo kanye nezinye izindlela zokubandlululwa. Umsebenzi wokuhlekisa ukuveza ukungabi nabulungisa kwezenhlalo, unciphise isimo, ususe ukungezwani. Kodwa ukungashayi okulimazayo, hhayi ukuqinisa ubukhosi, ungahlukanisi phakathi kwabantu abahlonishwayo nalabo abangajabulisa kuphela kubani, njengoba bengasho lutho. Ukubandlulula (ukusekela ukucwaswa) amahlaya kuyachithwa. Iphuzu.
Isimemo kumuntu obandlululiwe ukuze babambe iqhaza ekulimaleni - kuyanyamalala okungenani. Lesi yisikhundla esikahle kakhulu - ukucacisa ubudlova bakho kanye nokuzilolonga okuhle "ukuntuleka kwamahlaya" kusuka kususelwana. Ngemuva kwakho konke, lapho konke kungena endizeni "yamahlaya" - kungakuhlabelela kanjani, kunjalo? Ikakhulu kusukela ta "zhiruha" noma i- "nonsense" empeleni "kuyahlekisa", kunjalo? Abantu abanalezo noma ezinye izici zomzimba bakhona ukuze bahlangane nabanye, kunjalo? "Manje kungani bebheka amahlaya acasulayo ekhelini labo, kuyahlekisa - kuhlukile kuningi. Owesifazane ophelele akadanseli abanye, kodwa ngoba nje uthanda ukudansa? Ngabe una usthly ?!
Isisulu, esiphikisana, esibonisa ukungathembeki - siyingozi. Angadonsela abephula umthetho. Ngobukhulu, bambalwa abantu abafuna ukuzizwa i-scoundrel futhi, ikakhulukazi, akekho ofuna ukujeziswa. Yonke into, ngokwesimiso, baqonde ukuthi bayacasula labo abangahlukumezi babo - kubi. Kepha abantu abahlekisayo ngale ndlela abakho ngaphandle kokuzizwa bebaluleke kakhulu, ngobuchule, baqinile, bajwayelekile, ekugcineni. I-Mock nayo iyifomu lokujeziswa. Kepha into eyodwa, lapho sibopha isikhulu esikhohlakele noma sithambekele ngokweqile ekubuseni kwamadoda - kungenzeka ukuthi alahlekelwe amandla namandla ngenxa yamahlaya ethu.
Ekugcineni, i-wit ingahlukumeza indle (yize ihlekisa ngenkinga - akusho ukuyixazulula). Kepha amahlaya angaphezu kwabantu abukhulu, ngokwesibonelo, agunyaza ukulimala, amahlaya mayelana "nezingane eziwubuthayo" ama-enshrine ama-strong stereotypes futhi, ngasikhathi sinye, anciphise abesifazane belungelo lokuqala ukwenza iphutha. Kufanele siphile njalo ukungezwani, ngokwesaba ngokweqiniso ukuze sihlekise, ngoba qaphela ngaphakathi ukuthi kungukuhlekisa, noma ukujoyina i-calvary yakho ngokumamatheka okujabulisayo . Ngemuva kwakho konke, lokhu akukushayi - lokhu "yilokhu" ihlaya, inguqulo elula yodlame lwengqondo, okusho ukuthi - ngenxa "yokukhanyisa" kungubudlova bokungeyona imfihlo.
Ukuhleka kuyizenzo ezimnandi. Ngokomzimba, ngokungathandeki, kube mnandi. Ukuhleka kwesisulu se-etching kwenza ukukhaphela kwenza ukukhaphela kube mnandi, yize isikhathi esevele ebekhululekile kumgqugquzeli, wayesevele emnandi ngomqondo wokuqonda kwakhe. Phezu kobuthakathaka buhleke ngoba kungenzeka. Futhi kungazelelwe akunakwenzeka, ngikholisa umhlatshelo ukuthi athathe isimo sokuhlekisa.
Cha, ngokungathi sína, ucabanga ukuthi ngihlekisa ngesimo somzimba wami? Ngihlekisa ngoba ngiphonsa ukudla, ngingesabi umlomo? Ukuphuma kwami kwanyanga zonke, okuhambisana nama-spasms, nokusabela kwami ekuphambukeni ngokomzimba kuyahlekisa? Futhi, yini, ngiyahlekisa ngenxa yalokho ongiklolodelayo, bese kubandakanya nemizwa yami? Ngihlekisa kakhulu, yebo. Kunjalo! Nikeza ithebhulethi kusuka kuma-spasms, ama-banderlogs, uma ufuna "ukusekela". I-Selgaronia yinto enhle lapho ingangeni ukuzethemba. Kalula nje, ngiyakwazi okuhlakazeka. Emsebenzini wami, kusiza kakhulu, kepha ngidla ukudla njalo. Akukho lutho olungahambi kahle ngathi, ngizobona i-elandelayo yepakhosi elilandelayo elinamahlaya bese ngibhala umngane: "Ngingumama we-Dragons! I-PAN iyahlulwa, kwakhishwa i-pasta futhi ujoyine ibutho lami! ". Kepha lapho benobuthi esikoleni ngenxa yokwakheka kwesikhumba nobukhulu bezibuko futhi basungula zonke izinhlobo zamahlaya ngakho - anginaso isizathu sokuzibona. Akukho lutho oluhlekisayo ekhanda lami. Futhi ilungelo lokusungula amahlaya ngokuthi ngizoba khona kanjani uma uphula izibuko, akekho. Futhi cha, ngeke ngivumelane neqiniso lokuthi umbono wokushaya isigxobo sami sekhanda kuyahlekisa. Khumbula: "Zihleke" - akunakuhleka "nabahlukumezi bakho." Ungabasekeli labo abakulimazayo. Awuhlekisi. Okwenzekayo ngawe akuhlekisi.
Ukuhleka kungaba wukusabela okwesabayo kokuthile okungalindelekile, ngobuwula obubuhlungu, obungabekezeleleki, - okungukuthi, empeleni, kungenzeka kungahlotshaniswa nokuhlekisa noma okuthile okuhlekisayo. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kuyimpendulo ejwayelekile ezenzakalweni zezwe elizungezile. Kepha "bahleke wena" kubantu abakuhlekayo - baqonde ukuthi "bahleke nathi phezu kwendlela esikuhlambalaza ngayo," "Yiba phepha, uqinisekise, uqinisekise ilungelo lethu". Nalabo ihlazona nathi ayihlekisi. Lala iqiniso lokuthi uyathuka - kusho ukuqondisisa inkinga futhi uvumele ukulimala kuqhubeke, kanti kufanele kumiswe. Ungesabi ukuba sina. Ungesabi ukubonakala kwesidina noma unesithukuthezi. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuhleka. Kepha udlame olwenziwe kuwe alusekho lwabo.
