Ngakho-ke usenkingeni kanye negama lokudangala kwakho. Yini ukudangala kwakho - isihogo siyamazi. Ngoba kwesinye isimo, lokhu ukugula okungathi sína okumele kube nochwepheshe amaphilisi amnandi. Kokunye, nje uchungechunge lokuhluleka okucasulayo, ukushaywa okukhohlisayo ngemuva, ngemuva kwalokho angifuni lutho, ngaphandle kokulala nokukhala noma ukubulala wonke umuntu kuMama we-damn.
Vele, kungcono ukuya kuchwepheshe kulesi simo. Ungafika kanjani kuye? Ungazenza kanjani ukuvuma ukuthi unephutha ngekhanda lakho? Bese kuthi-ke, kufanele ngiye kubani? Kudokotela wezengqondo esibhedlela? Lokhu, ngendlela, kuyindlela engcono kakhulu, ngoba udokotela wezifo zengqondo uneziqu ezanele ukuze anqume ukudangala okubi kakhulu kanye nelungelo lokunquma amaphilisi amakhemikhali amnandi, ngemuva kwalokho kuba lula. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izazi zezengqondo zithanda kakhulu ngethebulethi, futhi amaphilisi anemiphumela emibi kakhulu, kufaka umlutha, ofanele isikhathi esiyishumi sokucabanga ngaphambi kokuqala ukuqhuma. Inketho yesibili ukuya kudokotela wezengqondo. I-Therapist. Inkinga ukuthi akukaze kube nesikole esibi sokwelapha eRussia. Kukhona "izihlahla" zochwepheshe abahlukile, abafundi bezinye abazinqwabelana, ezibhekwa njengezihle. Kodwa "kwisikhangiso", uzothola iziqu zezengqondo zeziqu zesikole sezobuchwepheshe zaseZaborogical, ojeziswe ubuciko bokuthi "Udinga okungenani izikhathi eziyishumi", futhi ngemuva nje kwaqala. " Lokhu, noma kunjalo, futhi "ama-Psychecology" amahle "ayazi kanjani. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala kungcono kakhulu ukuzama ukuziphuza. Ukuzithokozisa, ukuzikhuza, ukuzimela kanye nakho konke okuhlukile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, into yokuqala okudingeka uyigcine ekhanda lami: konke kuzodlula. Kufana nokuhlolwa, noma ikhefu lomqashi, noma ama-toothpow noma inkantolo yokukhokhela i-alimony: kungekudala noma kamuva konke kuzophela, kuzofaka ilanga nezinyoni, futhi ungafaka ilanga nezinyoni, futhi ungathenga a Ibhodlela likabhiya futhi aliphuze ebhentshini. Ukudana komoya, noma, njengoba sikubiza kangcono ngokucophelela, kwalasha ngokuphelelwa yithemba, ngandlela thile, kuncipha. Into yesibili, okungaba kuhle ukucabanga - okwenzekayo nawe ngokujwayelekile. Impilo ihlala iqukethe inani elihle nokubi: akwenzeki nje. Izikhathi zemvula zithathelwa indawo ngokugqamile kanye okuphambene nalokho. Lokhu kwenzeka njalo futhi kuvela kuwo wonke umuntu. Isimo sakho somuntu siqu asimangazi kune-chocolate emboza i-popsicle noma iqhwa echibini lasekwindla. Into yesithathu obekufanele ikhunjulwe - ngakho-ke okwamanje akwenzeki - lokhu akuyona ezansi. Lokhu ngokuvamile kungukubusa okuyinhloko kwabalahlekile (kanye nokungenwa okuphumelelayo yilashs?): Akunandaba ukuthi kungaba kubi kangakanani, konke kungabi kubi kakhulu. Futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi usufinyelele phansi, uzokungqongqoza kusuka ngezansi. Futhi aze angqongqoze, angakhululeka ngokungathi sína. Okwesine, mhlawumbe, okudabukisa kakhulu: Ukudangala kungukuthi, njengomthetho, isikhathi eside. Okokuqala ngeke ngikholwe, ngoba "ukukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe" kuzovela ngokushesha okukhulu futhi kungekudala kuzobonakala kubona ukuthi konke kwahamba. Izindaba Ezinhle, Inkampani Enhle, I-Cool Party, izicathulo ezintsha noma impumelelo emsebenzini kuzokuholela esimweni sokugqwala okugcwele euphoria, ekuzwayutheni "Ngiyinkosi yalesi sihloko sezwe"Kepha, maye, kubuhlungu kuzokuwa ePuchin ekuphelelweni yithemba ngosuku olulandelayo. Lezi zinguquko ezinyanyekayo zilungele kakhulu lokho okucindezelekile. Ungabethembi. Eqinisweni, isimo esicindezelayo sifana ne-hangover, ungayikhipha kuphela, okudingeka uthathe ingqondo yami ngaso sonke isikhathi. Gxila emsebenzini - kuyinqaba futhi kushubile. Ukuziphatha ngakho isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka, buyela ekhaya ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, woza kusenesikhathi. Bheka imodi. Bhalisela ejimini futhi empeleni uye kuyo. Lesi sakamuva sibheka ngasikhathi sinye ngeseluleko se-Banal kunazo zonke nebuhlungu kakhulu, kepha siyasebenza ngempela: Uma sizikhandla kuma-simulators, uhlobo oluthile lwamakhemikhali alusizo lukhiqizwa emzimbeni, ama-hormone wenjabulo. Futhi izinhlungu kuyo yonke imisipha ngeke zivumele ukugxila kokuhlangenwe nakho nosizi kanye nesihawukela wena, othandekayo uzothola indlela entsha yokuphuma. Iholide liphinde liboniswe, kepha kungcono ukuthi libe nzima - uhambo lwebhasi e-Europe, uhambo oluya e-Jeep eMongolia (lapho nje amaRussia aqede ama-visa). Into ebaluleke kakhulu ngesikhathi futhi ulale kakhulu, okusho ukuthi kufanele ubuye ekhaya esimweni esinjalo ukuwela embhedeni futhi ungahambi. Utshwala, ngokuvamile, ngeze. Noma ngabe azoshayela ajule ekucindezelekeni, noma angenise e-euphoria futhi aqinise umphumela we- "Swing". Kepha ukufunda izincwadi ezinamafutha - kungenzeka kakhulu. Yebo, ukubhala, ngendlela. Umlobi uJoan Rowling, umlobi kaHarry Potter, wathi "ezansi kwaba yisisekelo esiqinile sempilo yami entsha." Uhlukanisile, ngaphandle komsebenzi, ngaphandle kwendlu yomuntu, "eyayilahlekile, engabazi," wahlala phansi, "wahlala phansi," wahlala phansi, "wahlala phansi wabhala incwadi eyabuyisa amakhono okufunda izigidi zezingane nentsha kanye nentsha kakhulu.Ngubani owathi wena kubi?