Ukuphonsa izinkinga yindlela yokuthola ucansi kuphela esimweni sevangeli. Kubukeka sengathi konke kusendaweni, kepha zinciphise inqwaba yenjabulo. Kuqoqwe labo abadinga ukushiya unyaka ophumayo!
Imfundo ephakeme - kuphela "i-crust"
Uma ulahla iqiniso lokuthi uvame ukusho ukuthi labo abangenayo (okusho imfundo, kunjalo), kuvela isithombe esijabulisayo. Ufunda iminyaka engu-5 ku-Pr noma e-Economist, ngokwesibonelo. Uthola iDiploma yakho ebomvu yekhrisimu, bese uthola iqiniso elinonya: ekusebenzeni konke kwehlukile, hhayi njengoba kuchaziwe ezincwadini. Futhi-ke umbuzo uphakama ngokufanele: Ingabe zonke lezi zivivinyo, amaseshini, - wayeyize yini?Futhi nakhu akunjalo. Ukube ubungeyena nenhlanhla ekuqaleni, iBriton ibingekhona, futhi kwadingeka ngifunde ngempela, kodwa futhi ngiyosebenza isifundo ngokokwesibili, khona-ke siyakuhalalisela unethuba langempela lokuphatha isikhathi! Esikhathini sethu esinokhahlo, ngendlela, ikhono elingavamile futhi eliwusizo. Wonke umuntu unesikhathi sokubeka izinto eziza kuqala futhi ngasikhathi sinye futhi ukulala kwesinye isikhathi - yebo akukho ntengo! Yebo, ulwazi alusoze lwalungeke lube lukhuni - isithombe sezwe lakho nakanjani asisicaba.
Akunakwenzeka
Ikakhulu uthando lokuphinda abaqashi lapho udinga ukusika abasebenzi. Yebo, umuntu oyedwa angahle athathelwe indawo omunye. Futhi akuyona indoda nakancane, kepha ngokuvamile ngenye indlela - ngekhulu lamashumi amabili nanye, itiye! Lapha, ngendlela, amaGrikhi asendulo akade futhi aqhubeka. Sinqume ukucindezela iwayini nge-Stone Press: Ngokushesha kanye nabezindaba abakhathali ngokungafani nemilenze yabantu. Ngenxa yalokho, iwayini eliphumayo lanikeza izitha - laliziqhenya kakhulu, ngoba ukucindezela kanye ne-pulp kwacindezela amathambo akhe. Bekumele ngibuyele koPodulaba bakudala baphinde baye ekusebenzeni kwabantu.
Sonke sisho ukuthini: I-Can, yini, ukuthola umfanekiso oshibhile ubuyela kuthalente elithandekayo, kepha yimi kuphela okufanele uqonde ukuthi akukufanele ukubalwa emisebenzini yobuciko. Kubaluleke kakhulu, kunjalo, cha. Kepha kukhona okuhlukile. Nakunoma iyiphi indawo.
Konke kungafundwa
Sine-13 yekhulu lama-21 lapho kungafaki khona ukukhafulela - ziza ngobuhlakani obungaziwa! Wonke umuntu unethalente, alizange livezwe kuze kube sekupheleni. Empeleni, ukuze kudalulwe amandla angaba khona futhi kukhona ama-marathons amaningi kanye nezifundo eziku-inthanethi. Kwababhali besikhathi esizayo, abaculi, abathwebuli bezithombe, abaqambi, izimpisi ezinodonga lomgwaqo nezinye izidalwa ezinhle.Futhi-ke, kusho, ufunda ukufunda uhhafu we-arimium, uthuthukisa amakhono, ukukhathazeka. Ubhale umsebenzi wempilo yakhe yonke, "uKristu nesoni" - iminyaka eyi-15 uHerachil, kuyo ungumphefumlo wakhe, inhliziyo, imicabango, ayinalutho ngokuphelele. Kungazelelwe kufanelana ne-vasya, ihlombe ihlombe athi: "Futhi nami ngiyakwazi! Bengisezifundweni ezinembile, bitch, ukupenda kwafundisa! Ngingakwazi futhi ngobuciko! "
Ngeshwa, awukwazi. Ungafundisa ubuchwepheshe, kepha awukwazi ukufundisa umphefumulo ukusebenza. Angisho ngemicabango nhlobo - kungaba yilokho ongatshala imali. Ukuze ubheke wena, kunjalo, kuyancomeka. Kepha namanje ahlole amakhono akho. Futhi-ke abantu bazibiza ngokuthi bangabaqambi, kodwa indlela yokugcwalisa umshini wokuthunga abazi. Mhlawumbe kuyavela.
Ngemuva kwalokho ngizokwenza konke!
Ilinde isikhashana esifanele - lokhu kumnandi kwethu kuzwelonke. Isinikezeli? Ukuhlela? Ukuphathwa Kwesikhathi? Cha, awuzwanga! Dweba iphrojekthi okwadingeka yenze izinyanga ezintathu ngezinsuku ezintathu? HA! Singakwazi, siyakwazi, umkhuba! Ngokuvamile akuyona neze-nonsense namakhasimende awajabuli. Futhi abaphathi, ngendlela, futhi abajabulanga. Cha, kodwa yini bonke babefuna ukuqonda? Ukwenza okuthile kahle, kusamele uchithe isikhathi ngalesi sikhathi. Yebo, yebo, ukukufundise eyunivesithi ukuzophatha isikhathi nakho konke lokho, siyakhumbula. Kepha konke kungumkhawulo, igama elifanele! Kwesinye isikhathi "khona-ke" kuphenduka "akukaze" nokungabikho kwamaphrimiyamu, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kuyasebenza.
Phila Namuhla!
Ngubani owaziyo ukuthi ulungiselela ini kusasa? Thatha konke kusuka empilweni nanjengesikhathi manje! Akunamali? Yini engenzeka! Kanye nemalimboleko yalokho? Ikhono lilonke alisho lutho. Kungcono ukusizakala ngethuba futhi uhambe uqonde ngqo e-Easter Island (ikakhulukazi kumagazini wezemfashini wabhala ukuthi udinga ukugcwala ngokwakho), bese uzonikeza imalimboleko.Kanjani? Yebo, ngandlela thile konke kuzonqunywa! Into esemqoka yileso sikhathi. Futhi manje ungathenga imoto entsha ngokwakho, imodeli yokugcina yocingo futhi ngokujwayelekile konke! Futhi akunandaba ukuthi-ke ngeke ube nemali yokudla - Sekuyisikhathi eside etshelwe ukuthi ukuzila ukudla kuphela ukuze inzuzo itholakale ukutholakala nempilo jikelele!
Kufanele ngithande indlela engiyikho ngayo
Uthi kuwe umngani ngemuva kokuhlukana nomuntu wamaphupho akho, urcha aqothule ushokolethi wesishiyagalombili. Futhi uyavuma futhi aqiniseka ngokulambisa ukuthi okwedlule, ukuphela kwe-asshole, futhi awukacaci nawe ngokwezigaba. Eqinisweni, lezi yizo zonke iziphambeko zamafilimu ngeCinderella kanye neBridget Jones. Ukuqedwa akudingekile (ebusika kangaka kangako - isimo sezulu asisisipho, ungqimba owengeziwe wezinwele awuvimbi), uyinkosazana, ngakho-ke kuzoba noMark Darcy (kahle, noma inkosana), uzokwazisa.
Uyazi ukuthi yini amandla othando? Ukuthi usenza sibe ngcono. Ngenxa yabantu obathandayo, sifuna ukuba ngcono kakhulu. Ngakho-ke ngaphambili futhi ukukhononda intombi, cabanga: Ngabe uyithanda ngempela? Wenzeni othandekayo wakho? Kathathu kulungiselelwe isidlo sakusihlwa uLuzhenya Mezvivo? Waphunyuka? Ngiyamangala ukuthi kungani. Udla ushokoledi. Ungaphazanyiswa.
Ukushayela kowesifazane - inkawu nge-grenade
Kukhona ngisho nokuphawula. Ubulili ngeke budlule!Isitembu ephasiphothi alisho lutho!
Ngakho-ke, nokuthi kusho ukuthini. Imvamisa, amadoda athi awashisi nesifiso sokushada nentombazane ethile, futhi angashadanga ngomgomo - zizwe umehluko. Lawa madoda - abanikazi ababi kakhulu. Futhi baqapha impahla yabo njengeso! Futhi unkosikazi usekhona. Amantombazane amaningi amancane aphawula ukuthi ngemuva kokuphela komshado osemthethweni, amadoda abo ayabaleka futhi abe mnene. Ngokuvamile, kufanelekile ukuzama, ucabangani?
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