USteve Sammpon, uyise wamadodakazi amathathu, wanquma ukuhlanganyela nabanye obaba ngokubona kwakhe, ukuze babengesabi kangako ukuba babhekane nokutholakele kobusha bamadodakazi abo. Yilokhu ubaba ngamunye okufanele athole.
Lungela ukuzizwa ugugile
Lapho ukuqwashisa ngeqiniso lokuthi usondela ekubonakaleni abazukulu manje sekusondele kakhulu kunokuzalwa kwendodakazi yakho. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungadonsa ukuze udakwe futhi / noma uthenge imoto yezemidlalo. Ngiyacela, ungazenzi okuthile ngasikhathi sinye.Lungela ukuzizwa ukhathazekile
Ukuthola, ndodakazi yaseRose, kwesinye isikhathi eyalethwa kulezi zikhathi lapho ubukade ulinde okuncane. Lapho udadewabo omncane efika ekhaya evela esikoleni, ekhala, ngoba umfana osebhasini wambiza ngokuthi "okungajwayelekile", futhi unika amandla akho okuhlala kuwo, ngaphandle kokufiphaza: "Yebo, kungukuthi ukhona Muhle. " Futhi enye ibinzana azoliphulukisa isilonda, ozozama (hhayi esiphumelele kakhulu) ukuphulukisa usuku lonke.
Lungela ukuzizwa wethukile
Kodwa-ke, angaphenduka ingane enhle emusha ohlanya futhi oyisiphukuphuku osemusha, futhi awukwazi ngisho nokuqaphela izimbangela zoguquko. Mhlawumbe wenze okuthile. Noma akazange. Noma ume. Awusoze waqiniseka. Futhi kusuka kulokhu ongakwaziyo okufanele asolwe, konke kuba kubi kakhulu: "Baba, yini inkinga ngawe?"
Futhi, ulindele umuzwa wokubonga okungenakuchazeka lapho kamuva lapho esondela kuwe ukucasha futhi wephule ihlombe lakho. Qondisisa - hhayi ibhizinisi lakho. Ibhizinisi lakho nje ukuqhubeka nokusondela.
Lungela ukuzwa ukuthi uyasetshenziswa
Ngaphezulu noma ngaphansi njalo. Ngenkathi ephinda futhi akhuphule futhi umbono wakho, umuzwa wakho wesitayela, inkulumo yakho yomdlali, ngaphandle kokuyeka ukusebenzisa imali yakho ngaphandle kwesithunzi sokungabaza. Futhi lungiselela ukuzizwa uhlakaniphile kunabo bonke obuhlakaniphile uma kufakwa ezinkingeni zangempela futhi kuza kuwe emikhandlwini. Futhi imzwa. Bese uthi: "Ngiyabonga, baba".Ulungele ukuzizwa ngesinye isikhathi unesizungu
Ngoba intombazane eyayihlala iyakuthanda, manje isithakazelo esikhulu kubangani ngeNhlangano Yabangane, ucingo lwayo futhi, mhlawumbe, umfana. Futhi uyoncamela ukukhuluma nonina nganoma yini, ngoba ngaso sonke isikhathi uzoba ngumfokazi omncane kubo, yize bezoqhubeka nokukuthanda. Lungiselela iqiniso lokuthi ngezikhathi ezinjalo udinga kuphela ukuhamba ubhiya wesiphuzo wokubuka umdlalo ku-TV.
Lungela ukuzwa ukulangazelela izikhathi ezindala ezinhle
Lapho emi ngengubo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka lapho ayenenqwaba yemali, futhi ethwetshulwa nezintombi eziphambi kwebhola lokuthweswa iziqu. Uyakhumbula ukuthi wakugawula kanjani amadolo akho futhi wagigitheka lapho unaka naye, ebeka izinyawo zedwa. Uzoletha ishiya abuze: "Ungibuka yini kangaka?" Futhi umane unikine ikhanda futhi uhlanganise nenzulu.
Lungela ukuzijabulisa
Futhi ulwe nezinyembezi eziqinisa, lapho kuzoletha amahlanu, noma afake umgomo ngesikhathi somdlalo weqembu lakho lebhola, noma ubhale ingoma wonke umkhaya oba yiyo. Lungiselela lokho ohlale unesizathu sokuziqhenya ngakho. Lungela ukuba ngumuntu othanda kakhulu.
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