Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi ama-boxers akwenza ube yintombazane yomlilo kanye nomphefumulo wenkampani? Kukunika ukholo kuwe? Uphenduka abe yi-sexy pantry? Noma okuphambene nalokho, ingabe uyawulawula futhi uziphathe njenge-ballad? Ngamafuphi, uqinisekile ukuthi ukuphuza kukwenza omunye umuntu.
Yebo, ngokuvamile, imayelana nayo. Kodwa-ke, lezi zinguquko azimi omkhulu kangako futhi azibulawa kangako njengoba kubonakala kuwe.
Abaphenyi abavela e-University of Missouri bephethe izivivinyo ukuthola ukuthi bazibona kanjani ababhalisile, njengoba bebona abanye ababambe iqhaza edilini futhi kangakanani phakathi kwale mibono emibili.
I-Clinical Psychologist Rachel Vinogradov (Nasi isibongo sokukhuluma!) Saqoqa izifundo eziyi-156 futhi sabacela ukuba bazichaze ngokuningiliziwe nangesibonakaliso nokuzibonakalisa. Ngemuva kwalokho wabenza iphathi nengxenye ephuthume kakhulu yabahlanganyeli. Uma nje inkampani itholakele, ababukeli abangama-30 babheka futhi baphawula izinguquko ekuziphatheni kwezihloko - bengazi ukuthi babani abaziphuthelayo nge-soda vodka, futhi ngubani uSoda. Abahlanganyeli baphinde baphawula ukuguquka ekuziphatheni kwabo.
Futhi manje ukumangala okuyinhloko: Ababukeli be-sober baphawule ushintsho olulodwa kuphela. Ukuhlolwa okudakiwe sekuyenzeka okungokomphakathi, futhi ngisho nalokho akuyona ikakhulukazi.
Ngasikhathi sinye, izibonakaliso ngokwazo zazikhuluma ezincwadini zazo zemibuzo emibusweni yazo: futhi zaziyethembela bona, futhi i-alamu yanyamalala, futhi ukuthula endaweni ethile kwavela, futhi kumnandi futhi kube mnandi kakhulu, kwathi futhi kumnandi kakhulu, kwaba sento emnandi kakhulu, baqala kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, awukho umbukeli onjalo wahlukaniswa.
Ngakho-ke uma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi i-mojito embalwa ikuguqula ibe nguhlobo lwakho oluthuthukisiwe (noma olwehlisiwe), ungakholelwa, lokhu kuyinkohliso. Noma yini oyicabanga ngayo, ezungeze ukubona konke okukude okukude, kukhomba okuncane nje.